The Antichrist_Star
Master Don Juan
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Who knows Nocturnal... who knows.Originally posted by Nocturnal
Matrix... I wish I could meet you. I really do...
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Who knows Nocturnal... who knows.Originally posted by Nocturnal
Matrix... I wish I could meet you. I really do...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That is a good question Bunk, and I would imagine that the answer to it would be simply that I have my Instant Messager handle posted on this board, and from what I have been told... I give fairly decent advice... but perhaps I am mistaken. Second, the fact that I choose against hanging with the "popular" people during my high school tenure has nothing to do with these people Instant Messaging me... considering that none of us know each other formally... let alone in actuality. Thirdly Bunk... what the fuck does your post in its entirety have anything to do with what I just wrote? Just curious.Originally posted by Bunk 040
BUT that **** sounds like a ****ing DYD newsletter or something.
You say:
"I receive countless instant messages a day from people, all asking me what they should do in their lives."
Now why the hell are the messaging you I ask. Is it because you never hung out with the "cool' kids? If that is so, then you contradict your logic in a couple of the rants (only read 1.5). You said that people only follow whats cool and you weren't perceive as cool since you didn't hang out with cool kids. Now that leads back to my question: Why The Fuck Are They Messaging You? Just curious.