The Antichrist_Star
Master Don Juan
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Who knows Nocturnal... who knows.Originally posted by Nocturnal
Matrix... I wish I could meet you. I really do...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Who knows Nocturnal... who knows.Originally posted by Nocturnal
Matrix... I wish I could meet you. I really do...
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That is a good question Bunk, and I would imagine that the answer to it would be simply that I have my Instant Messager handle posted on this board, and from what I have been told... I give fairly decent advice... but perhaps I am mistaken. Second, the fact that I choose against hanging with the "popular" people during my high school tenure has nothing to do with these people Instant Messaging me... considering that none of us know each other formally... let alone in actuality. Thirdly Bunk... what the fuck does your post in its entirety have anything to do with what I just wrote? Just curious.Originally posted by Bunk 040
BUT that **** sounds like a ****ing DYD newsletter or something.
You say:
"I receive countless instant messages a day from people, all asking me what they should do in their lives."
Now why the hell are the messaging you I ask. Is it because you never hung out with the "cool' kids? If that is so, then you contradict your logic in a couple of the rants (only read 1.5). You said that people only follow whats cool and you weren't perceive as cool since you didn't hang out with cool kids. Now that leads back to my question: Why The Fuck Are They Messaging You? Just curious.