"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Religious Differences

jglide123

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I've been dating my current girlfriend for almost two years now. We're compatible on many different levels. However, where we clash at is religion....

She was raised in a somewhat strict baptist home (she's a pastor's daughter); I have a liberal, somewhat religious background. We have had heated debates on the bible, but we always manage to reconcile our differences....

Upon meeting her, I started going to her church (where her dad is the pastor). Her family are all conservative Southern Baptists. I'm a Christian, but not as strict as they are. I believe her dad knows this, and I'm sure that he doesn't approve of the relationship....

Bottom line is, I'm kinda torn. Anybody been in a similar situation?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cola

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You both believe in God, so whats the big deal? Just agree to disagree on some stuff and enjoy the time together.
 
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