"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Religious Differences

jglide123

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I've been dating my current girlfriend for almost two years now. We're compatible on many different levels. However, where we clash at is religion....

She was raised in a somewhat strict baptist home (she's a pastor's daughter); I have a liberal, somewhat religious background. We have had heated debates on the bible, but we always manage to reconcile our differences....

Upon meeting her, I started going to her church (where her dad is the pastor). Her family are all conservative Southern Baptists. I'm a Christian, but not as strict as they are. I believe her dad knows this, and I'm sure that he doesn't approve of the relationship....

Bottom line is, I'm kinda torn. Anybody been in a similar situation?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

cola

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You both believe in God, so whats the big deal? Just agree to disagree on some stuff and enjoy the time together.
 
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