Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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whats your take on it.is it all b.s it has so many contradictions and issues's i cant even get into. is it worth it? the mere fact of being good to one another so we dont go to hell dosnt mean we are better people. it just mean we are scared of the so-called hell.

christainity has so many variaties and islam too that im just fed-up of the christain faith. and of the idea of religion as a whole. i beleive in a GOD but not in religion. i beleive the wicked will be punished but i dont beleive in religion no more.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Religion's are primitive mythical memes dreamt up by mankind in order to weave a web of meaning where there may be none.

They fulfill a psychological human need for certainty ie eternal life after death in one form or another.

They answer the question that many humans ask of why we are here ie because gods, the goddess, bob the raingod put us here stupid.

They give you hope that you'll see your dead relative friend or lover on the otherside when you die and that physical death is not the end.

They helped to make sense of a primitive world without technological advances ie sun worship (eclipse in apocalypto meant the god's bloodlust was sated for the moment), volcanic eruptions (sacrificing people to the god's to prevent them), thunder and lightning (the gods are angered), rain (the god's are pleased especially bob the raingod for this one lol).

They allowed for mass mind control when primitive yet more naturally critical thinking oriented humans realized that the religion's were just stories and beliefs and had no real effect on nature or the people who believed them so they became the leaders of the religion and used it to control its followers into doing their bidding since the gods clearly favored them.

So yeah my take is religion and god belief is complete b.s but it makes sense the belief in god, gods, godesses and religion came about in primitive times and carried over today as an unfortunate side effect of an earlier time.

And since human beings can never know all the knowledge in the universe the most intelligent stance to take towards religion is an agnostic atheism where you are open to the idea of some form of god or unknown religion being true but until you are exposed to a god or religion you cannot disprove you can continue to disbelieve.

I mean for all we know in some corner of the universe there may be a godly pink unicorn who created all of us and the universe but we don't know that for sure so we have to keep our minds open incase one day that unicorn comes a calling and proves itself as being real lol.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Religion's are primitive mythical memes dreamt up by mankind in order to weave a web of meaning where there may be none.

They fulfill a psychological human need for certainty ie eternal life after death in one form or another.

They answer the question that many humans ask of why we are here ie because gods, the goddess, bob the raingod put us here stupid.

They give you hope that you'll see your dead relative friend or lover on the otherside when you die and that physical death is not the end.

They helped to make sense of a primitive world without technological advances ie sun worship (eclipse in apocalypto meant the god's bloodlust was sated for the moment), volcanic eruptions (sacrificing people to the god's to prevent them), thunder and lightning (the gods are angered), rain (the god's are pleased especially bob the raingod for this one lol).

They allowed for mass mind control when primitive yet more naturally critical thinking oriented humans realized that the religion's were just stories and beliefs and had no real effect on nature or the people who believed them so they became the leaders of the religion and used it to control its followers into doing their bidding since the gods clearly favored them.

So yeah my take is religion and god belief is complete b.s but it makes sense the belief in god, gods, godesses and religion came about in primitive times and carried over today as an unfortunate side effect of an earlier time.

And since human beings can never know all the knowledge in the universe the most intelligent stance to take towards religion is an agnostic atheism where you are open to the idea of some form of god or unknown religion being true but until you are exposed to a god or religion you cannot disprove you can continue to disbelieve.

I mean for all we know in some corner of the universe there may be a godly pink unicorn who created all of us and the universe but we don't know that for sure so we have to keep our minds open incase one day that unicorn comes a calling and proves itself as being real lol.
exactly im not dismissing the fact of there being no god, i echo your words. the only way humans could be truly happy,is getting rid of hatred,jealosuy and envy. but can they?
im really searching for ways to whorship god without religion but cant do it yet.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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