"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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zinc4

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cordoncordon said:
Sounds like a nightmare. I could see how that could be a turn on for a one night sex romp, but not to date long term. Do you generally talk to them in English or Mandarin/Cantonese when they are using these cutesy voices?
They speak Mandarin on majority.....both but my Chinese is limited....they are just this way on average....have to admit though, the hotter ones are sexy as all hell....and i like the cutsey stuff because it is so feminine...as long as it is not too overboard which is often the case....i had a great catch with the ex that i was speaking about but i treated her like crap....so now i am just enjoying ONS on the weekends until my time is up here which is soon....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ironically the guys trying to project alpha attributes are obviously the ones who need validation from those around them - weaker people...

But yeah, I'd choose a new spot if that sort of thing was happening. Screw that.
 
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