"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zinc4

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cordoncordon said:
Sounds like a nightmare. I could see how that could be a turn on for a one night sex romp, but not to date long term. Do you generally talk to them in English or Mandarin/Cantonese when they are using these cutesy voices?
They speak Mandarin on majority.....both but my Chinese is limited....they are just this way on average....have to admit though, the hotter ones are sexy as all hell....and i like the cutsey stuff because it is so feminine...as long as it is not too overboard which is often the case....i had a great catch with the ex that i was speaking about but i treated her like crap....so now i am just enjoying ONS on the weekends until my time is up here which is soon....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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rhythmic

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Ironically the guys trying to project alpha attributes are obviously the ones who need validation from those around them - weaker people...

But yeah, I'd choose a new spot if that sort of thing was happening. Screw that.
 
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