“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Relative to income, what do you think is the occupation that women give the least respect to?

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I'm thinking garbagemen (they get paid fairly well since the workers have to be enticed to put with all the sheet) and fast-food location manager.

Conversely, a starving poet/musician probably gets the most respect.
 

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Uber driver or fast food worker
 

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Only professional athletes, executives, doctors, lawyers, and engineers are even visible to most women.
They don't realize those guys work all the time, so they feel neglected and cheat with the pool guy. Then they get half of everything, the kids, and half your income because of the kids.
 

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Conversely, a starving poet/musician probably gets the most respect.
I think this converse principle works for me to some extent.
Being a photographer, I do get more job-respect than my bank statement would suggest.

Don't get me wrong, financially I do reasonably OK - but a long way from what most would call 'rich'
 

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Only professional athletes, executives, doctors, lawyers, and engineers are even visible to most women.
Most women are repulsed by engineers because most engineers have poor social skills. Engineers are higher income men who often struggle to get sex.

A lot of lawyers work too much and are not active seducers.
 

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Electricians, plumbers, blue collar jobs like that. What women don’t understand is those mother fvckers make bank! But they’ll chase the private in the army or Air Force that makes $20,000 a year.lol
 

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Most guys don't get laid based on occupations. Most men have occupations that are irrelevant to women's attraction levels. Women under 30 get most excited for professional athletes, musicians, drug traffickers, night club DJs, club promoters, and some bartenders. Women who have hit the Epiphany phase (late 20s, but more commonly 30s) start to get excited about doctors, lawyers, or executives, but sometimes fucck more exciting guys on the side if their doctor, lawyer, executive is on the boring side.

Firemen can do well too.
 
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Most guys don't get laid based on occupations. Most men have occupations that are irrelevant to women's attraction levels. Women under 30 get most excited for professional athletes, musicians, drug traffickers, night club DJs, club promoters, and some bartenders. Women who have hit the Epiphany phase (late 20s, but more commonly 30s) start to get excited about doctors, lawyers, or executives, but something fucck more exciting guys on the side if their doctor, lawyer, executive is on the boring side.

Firemen can do well too.

I have never understood why bartenders and bouncers get status in younger womens minds. Shows how simple they really are.

If a woman you are seeing ever starts bragging about knowing bartenders or being in "good graces" at the local bars. Run the other way immediately.
 

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I have never understood why bartenders and bouncers get status in younger womens minds. Shows how simple they really are.

If a woman you are seeing ever starts bragging about knowing bartenders or being in "good graces" at the local bars. Run the other way immediately.
That’s where they learn their bumming skills early on. They think if they can get some free drinks for them and their friends while maybe giving a little ***** in return then it’s worth it. Free drinks is all they care about, maybe score a little blow on the side too from the bartenders and bouncers. The bouncers are “tough guys” to them, but truth is most bouncers are anything but tough. It’s not about the guy, it’s about what the guy can do for them.
 

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Bartender friend of mine has over 300 body count, he’s pretty average looking and has a bit of a dad bod. It’s the social proof in his case. You can go out with this guy anywhere in our metro area and people always walking up to him because he knows practically everybody.
 

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I worked a job as a retail manager for years. I made well into six fugures, had seven weeks a year off and lived a fairly affluent lifestyle outside of work. Then when online dating I'd have women who would literally end the conversation and ghost me the moment I told them what I did for a living, even if it had been going great up to that point. Then I would go do my DJ job (which i literally got paid only free drinks for doing) at night or on weekends and have women throwing themselves at me constantly. So what you do for a living has a huge impact on the women who will date you. Thing is if a woman wouldn't date an otherwise good guy just because he didnt have a sexy job then its good to find out she's a shallow moron right up front and not waste your time on her.
 

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I worked a job as a retail manager for years. I made well into six fugures, had seven weeks a year off and lived a fairly affluent lifestyle outside of work. Then when online dating I'd have women who would literally end the conversation and ghost me the moment I told them what I did for a living, even if it had been going great up to that point. Then I would go do my DJ job (which i literally got paid only free drinks for doing) at night or on weekends and have women throwing themselves at me constantly. So what you do for a living has a huge impact on the women who will date you. Thing is if a woman wouldn't date an otherwise good guy just because he didnt have a sexy job then its good to find out she's a shallow moron right up front and not waste your time on her.

Nice never thought about a DJ. That makes sense.

On my dating apps i am a retired fire fighter right now. Might try the DJ thing soon. The fire fighter meme works well though. I get lots of dms and openers thanking me for my service hahaha.
 
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Real women like manly men.I know from experience that women find oil field workers ,construction workers attractive.A man who works with his hands outside is manly.So men that work inside might come second to some women.
 

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I work as a chemical process operator, I'm operating equipment worth billions. Almost nobody have the faintest clue what I actually do for a living and what level of expertise is required for my job. It's relatively well paid because of that, can't put anyone in that job without extensive training for at least a year due to the complexity.

Probably not the least respected job, more like nobody knows what it's even about or that it exists.
 

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Most women are repulsed by engineers because most engineers have poor social skills. Engineers are higher income men who often struggle to get sex.
That’s a logical argument. Unfortunately, women don’t operate on logic. Engineer = earning potential is her thought process.
 
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