greatsnake
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Why is it bad to date someone that is scared to be alone?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Because those people aren't happy with themselves. They rely on others to make them happy.
That happiness is fleeting, because it's conditional.
These people will also hop from partner to partner before you even know what's happening, as they don't think anyone can love them since they don't love themselves.
That happiness is fleeting, because it's conditional.
These people will also hop from partner to partner before you even know what's happening, as they don't think anyone can love them since they don't love themselves.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Is love or happiness ever really unconditional though?
Yes. My momma has always loved me.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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greatsnake
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yeah, i can see that.
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They just don't know if they like you or not. They might get involved with you and after months of relationship when they urge of being with somebody is satisfied come to realise that they don't like you.