greatsnake
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Why is it bad to date someone that is scared to be alone?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Because those people aren't happy with themselves. They rely on others to make them happy.
That happiness is fleeting, because it's conditional.
These people will also hop from partner to partner before you even know what's happening, as they don't think anyone can love them since they don't love themselves.
That happiness is fleeting, because it's conditional.
These people will also hop from partner to partner before you even know what's happening, as they don't think anyone can love them since they don't love themselves.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Is love or happiness ever really unconditional though?
Yes. My momma has always loved me.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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greatsnake
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yeah, i can see that.
Initiatedindenial
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They just don't know if they like you or not. They might get involved with you and after months of relationship when they urge of being with somebody is satisfied come to realise that they don't like you.