greatsnake
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Why is it bad to date someone that is scared to be alone?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Because those people aren't happy with themselves. They rely on others to make them happy.
That happiness is fleeting, because it's conditional.
These people will also hop from partner to partner before you even know what's happening, as they don't think anyone can love them since they don't love themselves.
That happiness is fleeting, because it's conditional.
These people will also hop from partner to partner before you even know what's happening, as they don't think anyone can love them since they don't love themselves.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Is love or happiness ever really unconditional though?
Yes. My momma has always loved me.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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greatsnake
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yeah, i can see that.
Initiatedindenial
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They just don't know if they like you or not. They might get involved with you and after months of relationship when they urge of being with somebody is satisfied come to realise that they don't like you.