"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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After just ending my relationship, I can't help to think back to the days where Disney always taught us to chase after "the one" and find a relationship and you will be "happy".

I now realize Disney and main stream media are. so. damn. wrong.

When I first got into an exclusive relationship I was already happy being on my own before heading into it, so that was a plus. I thought, in the beginning, that being in this relationship would enhance my happiness, and it did for a little bit, but not much. I got happier when I got a good grade in a class or gained more muscle, than being in this relationship, you want to know why? It is because those things are concrete to ME, a relationship is not concrete and does not improve you, but it does have the ability to ruin you if you end up being that guy who turns into a complete beta (for lack of a better word) once the relationship commences.

So I write to my brothers on SS, a single man, and how do I feel? Well according to all the latest magazines I should feel like sh1t and want to die, eat icecream, get fat etc. How do I actually feel?

Fvcking great.

Honestly, I feel like I did right before the relationship, just back to my old self and simply just keep chugging on the road of improvement.

So I must tell you, for the guys out there who think having girls or a relationship will make you happier, don't kid yourselves, it wont. You are truly happy only when you can be happy with just the company of yourself.

Women, money, cars, toys, etc just enhance that self happiness.

Working towards a goal and improving yourself, being something that is concrete, will make you a hundred times more happy than any woman or material object ever will.

Don't fall for the BS of the relationship, it is not a means of happiness.

"I do know one thing though, b1tches they come they go"

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Saturday through Sunday, Monday, Monday through Sunday, yo
Maybe I'll love you one day, maybe we'll someday grow
Till then just sit your drunk ass on that ****ing runway ho
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As long as you don't get bitter and twisted like a lot of people do.
I've only ever been in one relationship. Was great while it lasted, but I realised that I was better off being single and working on myself.
Never looked back.
 
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I'm very glad that you realize that no one can offer you happiness, except yourself. Become Zen.

(I'll be cheering you on)
 
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compleks said:
Saturday through Sunday, Monday, Monday through Sunday, yo
Maybe I'll love you one day, maybe we'll someday grow
Till then just sit your drunk ass on that ****ing runway ho
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As long as you don't get bitter and twisted like a lot of people do.
I've only ever been in one relationship. Was great while it lasted, but I realised that I was better off being single and working on myself.
Never looked back.
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I was just never a bitter person to begin with, I've grown to become very humble and I enjoy it.

Thanks @BeDJ, couldn't have done it without your help brotha!
 
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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Being single is great, hard to grow as a person when you have a parasite stealing your time. Eventually that powerful urge to mate will come back though.
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Example of someone being bitter over a past relationship, PRF, come on man, you're better than this.

Women are NOT parasites, they're sources of enjoyment and fun for a period of time. (some of them for sure can be gold diggin sl0res but hey b1tches gotta get paid right ;) )

Urge to mate? I'm 21 years old... I'm horny 24/7 man lol :moon: :eek:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
This fcking guy...you are so insecure in yourself that you cant look at anything objectively. Did I make you look like an a$$ in some previous post that you wheel out the tired shaming language? I am IN a relationship right now! Not everyone is as emotionally driven as you, get over yourself :rolleyes:
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lol by that response, seems that you're the only emotional driven male in this thread .

@jurry, u fkn wot m8, liftn is ghey.
 
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