“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Relationships cannot be made

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I propose a new law of the universe:

Relationships can't be MADE, just found.

Why do I say this? Because any attempt to FORCE things has always gone wrong and only came out of insecurity or desperation. If a person doesn't like you, what the hell do you want to make them like you for? The fact that they dislike you is a perfect reason to dislike them in return.

On the flip side, you can FIND common ground with everyone. We're all human and have similar natures and similar desires. So perhaps it takes a bit of tuning in to reach the common ground, but there almost always is one. At the very least, you both like friendships, humour, beauty, excitement and sex, don't you? Few people don't :D

But you can't MAKE this common ground.


Discuss.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Gubby said:
If a person doesn't like you, what the hell do you want to make them like you for? The fact that they dislike you is a perfect reason to dislike them in return.
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a true point, but what i have realized lately is the you can get 99% of people to like you in the first place if you are an easily likable guy. just something to think about. dont focus on why shes a *****, realize what you can do to make her not be a *****... dont get me wrong im not trying to say be who you arent, but dont be someone they wont like. maybe im crazy.
 
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Arizona iced tea said:
maybe im crazy.
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Everyone's crazy, so don't be so self-effacing! I'm probably half as successful with women than most guys here, I just speak confidently ;)

I do act differently with different people and I think that's ok. But I'm not changing myself - I'm letting out a facet of myself. I think we contain in ourselves a little of the qualities of every other person on earth. Naturally we'll have more to do with those who have more common ground with us. But we can relate with everyone. I think perhaps an "enlightened" or ideal personality could be friends with anyone almost without differentiation (these are peacetimes and there's no real need for conflict between strangers. If we fought over food or something then things might be different).
 
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