"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Relationships can be very beneficial if you follow my rules

TheMonkeyKing

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I respectfully disagree with the pessimism here. You can be really in to a girl and also keep her. This whole regimen is about learning to control oneself and moderate behaviours.

The difference being, blue pill men try to love a woman like a woman is supposed to love a man; overtly doting and communicating. If a man learns to love a woman like a man should - covert demonstration - while maintaining self control and a rigid frame, there's no reason why he can't keep the woman he wants.

As is fairly typical of SoSuave, guys are focusing of blaming women or the cruelty of reality, rather than holding the mirror up to themselves.

You can settle for 6/10 and give her your Disney notion of romance; or you can blow that notion right out of the water and truly change your own outlook regards masculinity, learning to love a 9/10 the way she wants to be.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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daddymonsterpoodle

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Yup, love women but by your terms not theirs. It is ok to love deeply and whole-heartedly. Dont let your fee fees make bad decisions for you though.
 

Huffman

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Make her do random favors to get her deeply invested. You dont get a girl hooked by doing things for her. You get her hooked having her do things for you. Have her do random errands, give her a grocery list or have her pick up your dry cleaning..
Boys raised by their mums - hammer this into your heads! Contrary to what you've been told, a feminine girl will love to do errands for you!
You know, when she invites you for a home cooked meal, and after a night of sex offers to walk around the block only to fetch coffee while you stay in bed - all the while humming a happy tune.

You'd be a fool to stop her.
 
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