"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Relationships can be very beneficial if you follow my rules

TheMonkeyKing

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I respectfully disagree with the pessimism here. You can be really in to a girl and also keep her. This whole regimen is about learning to control oneself and moderate behaviours.

The difference being, blue pill men try to love a woman like a woman is supposed to love a man; overtly doting and communicating. If a man learns to love a woman like a man should - covert demonstration - while maintaining self control and a rigid frame, there's no reason why he can't keep the woman he wants.

As is fairly typical of SoSuave, guys are focusing of blaming women or the cruelty of reality, rather than holding the mirror up to themselves.

You can settle for 6/10 and give her your Disney notion of romance; or you can blow that notion right out of the water and truly change your own outlook regards masculinity, learning to love a 9/10 the way she wants to be.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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daddymonsterpoodle

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Yup, love women but by your terms not theirs. It is ok to love deeply and whole-heartedly. Dont let your fee fees make bad decisions for you though.
 

Huffman

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Make her do random favors to get her deeply invested. You dont get a girl hooked by doing things for her. You get her hooked having her do things for you. Have her do random errands, give her a grocery list or have her pick up your dry cleaning..
Boys raised by their mums - hammer this into your heads! Contrary to what you've been told, a feminine girl will love to do errands for you!
You know, when she invites you for a home cooked meal, and after a night of sex offers to walk around the block only to fetch coffee while you stay in bed - all the while humming a happy tune.

You'd be a fool to stop her.
 
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