"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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relationship with a girl who has just broken up

jakeyboy

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hey guys out there, this is probably is a very sensitive topic to graze on, but i would like to get tips for going for a girl who has just broken up with her boyfriend. normally around this period of time, they're as soft as putty and emotionally unstable and will sure as hell respond to your advances, but how the heck do you ensure that you don't get played with, like just getting used as a rebound from her bad break up? would appreciate some good advice! thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Eternal

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Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 
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that's a hard question. i guess you just have to make sure her feelings for you are genuine and she's not JUST responding. or either give her some time to cool her jets then close on her.
 

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take advantage of this opportunity and show what a great guy you are.

one rule: do not act like a boyfriend.
 
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