"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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relationship with a girl who has just broken up

jakeyboy

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hey guys out there, this is probably is a very sensitive topic to graze on, but i would like to get tips for going for a girl who has just broken up with her boyfriend. normally around this period of time, they're as soft as putty and emotionally unstable and will sure as hell respond to your advances, but how the heck do you ensure that you don't get played with, like just getting used as a rebound from her bad break up? would appreciate some good advice! thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Eternal

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Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 
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that's a hard question. i guess you just have to make sure her feelings for you are genuine and she's not JUST responding. or either give her some time to cool her jets then close on her.
 

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take advantage of this opportunity and show what a great guy you are.

one rule: do not act like a boyfriend.
 
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