Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
Noticed several girl are keeping their relationship status as secret, does this mean anything ?
what are your observations on this topic
what are your observations on this topic
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Relationship status as secret
- Thread starter Maximummax
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Clockwerk50
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There was a thread here asking and discussing why women hide their boyfriends or the men they are with, especially online.
I cannot find the thread anymore, but if you do, there is tons of information there that answers what you are asking.
I cannot find the thread anymore, but if you do, there is tons of information there that answers what you are asking.
Bokanovsky
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The short answer is that they get more comments and likes from simps that way.
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Who knows, who cares?
Hamurabimbi
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I do. Just means I like flirting. Doesn't mean I'm going to cheat.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.