"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Relationship or Bachelorhood?

goldStandard

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A few weeks back I met a highschool English teacher at starbucks named "s". I went up to her because she's attractive. Turns out she's my age (24) and she's got her head straight. Barely drinks, has a good work ethic, takes care of her body and runs at least 3 miles a day to train for marathons. She's pretty and to top it off, she makes me feel good about myself. "S", being a teacher has that motherly touch.

Lately, we've been talking on a more intimate level and I'm quite confident that if I pursue her we'll be getting into a relationship in no time.

The question is: "Do I want to get in a relationship? or Remain a Bachelor?"

About me:
I am a megalomaniac who owns a 5bdrm house, a business, and has no problem dealing with women. I work out everyday to keep my body in shape and I am quite certain that I will have a great bachelorhood if I remain single.

the "What if" game:
I am "young", I have a lot to experience. So, If I remain single, I'll definitely be where I want to be in life. I know in the future I'll be dating models, business execs, 10's, 11's, 12's you name her -- I'll date her. I'll be rich, fit, and adventurous.

But what if get into a relationship with "s"? The thought of a relationship makes me want to vomit, but I am too curious for my own good to see what it would be like to give it a go with this teacher.

Any thoughts? Relationships tend to restrict an alpha males limitations. "The skies the limit" is my mentality, however women are my weakness and I know I could lose everything to a woman. But is there such thing as "a good relationship when I see one"?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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foomee

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goldStandard said:
I am "young", I have a lot to experience. So, If I remain single, I'll definitely be where I want to be in life. I know in the future I'll be dating models, business execs, 10's, 11's, 12's you name her -- I'll date her. I'll be rich, fit, and adventurous.
- You are only 24. That is very young. When women age they become less attractive, when men age they become more attractive (up to a certain point). Either way you are young and you know in the future you can still get other women...good women at that. So why not give it a go for a few months and if it doesn't work out, end it. After you can easily pick-up where you left off being a bachelor.


goldStandard said:
The thought of a relationship makes me want to vomit, but I am too curious for my own good to see what it would be like to give it a go with this teacher.
- They say curiosity killed the cat...but they also say "you'll always miss 100% of the shots you don't take". I think deep down you will regret it if you don't. In movies I always see the guy say "I let her get away". So don't let this one get away :up:

goldStandard said:
- But is there such thing as "a good relationship when I see one"?
Of course.
 
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