"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Relationship or Bachelorhood?

goldStandard

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A few weeks back I met a highschool English teacher at starbucks named "s". I went up to her because she's attractive. Turns out she's my age (24) and she's got her head straight. Barely drinks, has a good work ethic, takes care of her body and runs at least 3 miles a day to train for marathons. She's pretty and to top it off, she makes me feel good about myself. "S", being a teacher has that motherly touch.

Lately, we've been talking on a more intimate level and I'm quite confident that if I pursue her we'll be getting into a relationship in no time.

The question is: "Do I want to get in a relationship? or Remain a Bachelor?"

About me:
I am a megalomaniac who owns a 5bdrm house, a business, and has no problem dealing with women. I work out everyday to keep my body in shape and I am quite certain that I will have a great bachelorhood if I remain single.

the "What if" game:
I am "young", I have a lot to experience. So, If I remain single, I'll definitely be where I want to be in life. I know in the future I'll be dating models, business execs, 10's, 11's, 12's you name her -- I'll date her. I'll be rich, fit, and adventurous.

But what if get into a relationship with "s"? The thought of a relationship makes me want to vomit, but I am too curious for my own good to see what it would be like to give it a go with this teacher.

Any thoughts? Relationships tend to restrict an alpha males limitations. "The skies the limit" is my mentality, however women are my weakness and I know I could lose everything to a woman. But is there such thing as "a good relationship when I see one"?
 

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goldStandard said:
I am "young", I have a lot to experience. So, If I remain single, I'll definitely be where I want to be in life. I know in the future I'll be dating models, business execs, 10's, 11's, 12's you name her -- I'll date her. I'll be rich, fit, and adventurous.
- You are only 24. That is very young. When women age they become less attractive, when men age they become more attractive (up to a certain point). Either way you are young and you know in the future you can still get other women...good women at that. So why not give it a go for a few months and if it doesn't work out, end it. After you can easily pick-up where you left off being a bachelor.


goldStandard said:
The thought of a relationship makes me want to vomit, but I am too curious for my own good to see what it would be like to give it a go with this teacher.
- They say curiosity killed the cat...but they also say "you'll always miss 100% of the shots you don't take". I think deep down you will regret it if you don't. In movies I always see the guy say "I let her get away". So don't let this one get away :up:

goldStandard said:
- But is there such thing as "a good relationship when I see one"?
Of course.
 
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