"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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B0redandl0nely

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You can get it from watching movies on the lifetime network. I just saw this one about this married chick that hires a good looking contractor and ends up ****ing him. He seduces her but he's a nice guy so she doesn't leave her husband for him. I swear to God I saw myself in this contractor. He's so nice and became so obsessed with this woman. The only difference between him and I is that he doesn't understand that nice guy syndrome is death. He's mentally ill too just like me and I'm starting to think there is correlation between nice guy syndrome and mentall illness. DEATH TO NICENESS!!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75

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All I gotta say: :down::ninja::zip:
 

B0redandl0nely

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This dude was an obsessed psycho like im an obsessed psycho but I wouldn't have to be an obsessed psycho if I didn't act so ****ing nice
 
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