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Rejection?

PuffyPonny

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So last week I finally decided to break the ice and give a guy that I'm interested in my number and told him to text/call sometime.He said sure and took it.However I ran into him the next day and the first thing he said was "not only did I lost your number but I broke my phone at soccer last night. Then he proceed to tell me that his phone cost him 600 bucks and was disappointed over the loss.There was an awkward silence then he said,he didn't do it on purpose...Yet he made no attempt to ask for my number again.

I feel like he was trying to let me down easy...I just don't believe him.I know things like this happen but it is too much of concidence that now he broke his phone after getting my number. Is this rejection?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

dustmuffin

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Sounds like it....move on.....being a woman it's easy for you to get guys so why worry about it.....wait.....you are a woman......
 
The Duke

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PuffyPonny said:
So last week I finally decided to break the ice and give a guy that I'm interested in my number and told him to text/call sometime.He said sure and took it.However I ran into him the next day and the first thing he said was "not only did I lost your number but I broke my phone at soccer last night. Then he proceed to tell me that his phone cost him 600 bucks and was disappointed over the loss.There was an awkward silence then he said,he didn't do it on purpose...Yet he made no attempt to ask for my number again.

I feel like he was trying to let me down easy...I just don't believe him.I know things like this happen but it is too much of concidence that now he broke his phone after getting my number. Is this rejection?
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Yes its probably rejection. I get "my phone broke/not working properly" excuses at least once a week from girls. If somebody really wants to see you, they will make it happen. Its too bad people can't be honest, but most can't handle rejection either.
 
marmel75

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Sounds like it, or else this dude is super lame...either way look for someone else
 
BetterCallSaul

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Don't waste your time or energy any more. Move on.
 
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