"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rejection Will Help You

PiHiPlaya

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Why Rejection Will Help You

You become the strongest Don Juan you can be when you get rejected. Especially for beginners.

Think about it, when you get rejected you.....

(AFCDJ) Act like you don't care
(DJ) Don't Care
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(AFCDJ) Act like it's her loss
(DJ) Know it's her loss
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(AFCDJ) Tell yourself there is plenty of women out there
(DJ) Know that there are plenty of women out there, and you start hitting on the next woman
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(AFCDJ) Move On
(DJ) Move On

So how do you stop being the AFCDJ and Become the true DJ?
Get Rejected to the point where it becomes natural.
In the bible you are told "Think and you will become" or a variation that says "If you fake something enough, it becomes part of your personality"

When you get rejected is not only the time you act like a DJ most, it is the time where you need to be the DJ most. Why?

(a) You have to show the woman you are not dependent on any woman that comes along. Women will see that, you will become a challenge... as we all know, women crave challenges.

(b) You have to show your friends and peers that you aren't a whiney little girl, you need to show you don't care or you'll be made fun of.

Use every time you get rejected to your advantage think about what you did wrong, this is a time to put everything into perspective... it is time to become the strongest DJ you can be!

Talk to everyone knowing that if you do get rejected you will only become an even stonger DJ and that they will help you more by rejecting you than if they did give you their number! Eveyone that you see on the street, if a tool.... a device to make you the strongest DJ you can be. Now young dj's do not go out afraid into your world, high school, mall, bar, night club, or any other social place being afraid of rejection! See that you will benefit off of them no matter the outcome.

Once you get rejected to the point that the DJ answers become natural to you, is the time I will write again.

Thank you
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mikelo2k

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Wow, that was a really good post IMHO. Not too long, got straight to the point, and I think its very motivating :D

Good stuff PiHiPlaya :p
 

Microphone Fiend

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yea this will be one of my last posts for a while need some more field experience and less armchair dj'ing....
Nice post, I really gotta get into the field more and SAY SOMETHING.. rejection good
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Boricua_33015

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this is a great post!

Its damn true. When I get depressed (or high) I tend to analyze things alot more, and I try to identify exactly whats causing the problem and try to find a solution.

If I hadn't been rejectioned to the point of rock bottom I wouldn't have been motivated enough to make a change.
 
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