"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rejection: Why do you even care?

Seraph

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Another thing I thought about today while standing around at work.

Think about your life right now. Think about the people you interact with, and the ones you see once, maybe twice. Think about where you might be a year from now, where you will be ten years from now.

Got it?

Now I want you to think about that guy that cut you off on the street by the Starbucks a year and a half ago. Oh, you can't remember? Did it even happen? Does it matter who that guy was?

No?

Well how about the one time this guy you used to go to school with a year ago, didn't say hi to you in class. Do you really care about that right now?

No?

Ok, think about that hot girl that you just saw, the one with the black pants and that shiny lip gloss. Oooh yeah, her. Hair down to the waist, booty so scrumptious your nike's are turning into pools. Now, think about what would happen if you ask her out, and she rejects you. Will you care in a year? Will you even remember her in a year? In ten years?

So why are you getting flustered? The crowd? You think they'll remember this in 6 months, much less a year? Ten?

Afraid of your boys reactions to you getting denied? Did they go up to her? Did they even try? Then why are they splashing the hater-aide on you by spittin all that jibba-jabber?

Seriously folks, Rejection: why do you even care? None of the girls that said no to you will matter the second after you get their reply. Most you won't even remember about in a year, or ten years. So why not chalk this up to lady luck, and go for it. You will either get some sex, or another memory that will soon fade away out of it. Combine this with your
options , and you have no reason to worry about rejection.

So uh...why are you still reading this? Go get those rejections/numbers!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fatality

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I'm 21 and I still remember the girl that rejected me in 3rd grade. It hurt:D
 

The TallOne

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Someone said..

"Rejection is like lifting weights, it hurts, but, the more it happens, the stronger you get."
 

jakeyboy

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Originally posted by The TallOne
Someone said..

"Rejection is like lifting weights, it hurts, but, the more it happens, the stronger you get."


great quote! agreed mate.
 
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