"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rejection sucks and what are good pick up lines?

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Hey guys another postive thread for me ;) Anyways I went to the mall today all by myself.And man there are soooooo many hot females.I approached about 5 hot women it was kinda of nervwracking at first but I did.I said in my mind"**** it if they think im nerdy I need to not care".So basically I got rejected by all 5 females, I really dont care because i'll never see them again.I tried to put in c&f but none of the girls I tried it on laughed,they all basically just said"I have a boyfriend".Some even said"I gotta go,bye".And when I tried to say hi,to one girl she just looked at me and in a *****y way said"I hope your not talking to me".I really dont give a **** about this girls because well atleast I tried so thats what happened today.Well im not going to sit here and complain rejection sucks but this is a first step for me coming to DJ.Basically I got couple questions like when I approach a random women how can I come to her so she won't roll her eyes or think im creepy(like what happened today)and what are some good pick up lines for approaching random women?Well remeber everyone stay postive:up:

me to anyone who talks crap:box: lol!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok I hope you didnt approach ghetto chiks, couse your white!!! All ghetto look for guys that have their underwear sticking out!! So listen up, WE ARE ALL SO ****ING PROUD OF YOU MAN!!! YOU MOTHERCUKING ****ING DID IT!! CONGRATS!! Next time say to them: I am so horny i need to suck your boyfriend d1ck!! This is the best appraoch ever!! Every one will take you home and fuk u!!.




me to anyone who talks crap lol!


^^^ That was totaly GAY!!
 

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shydude said:
Ok I hope you didnt approach ghetto chiks, couse your white!!! All ghetto look for guys that have their underwear sticking out!! So listen up, WE ARE ALL SO ****ING PROUD OF YOU MAN!!! YOU MOTHERCUKING ****ING DID IT!! CONGRATS!! Next time say to them: I am so horny i need to suck your boyfriend d1ck!! This is the best appraoch ever!! Every one will take you home and fuk u!!.
Ghetto chicks,lol dude thats nasty I only approach whitegirls tust me im like the whitest guy you will ever meet and maybe the nerdest.But if I use your line wont she slap me?Well im going to the mall tommorow as well im not giving up until I get a number and im going to back thr gym haven't been there for awhile Im gonna try not to be intimiated by the other guys its gonna be hard but i will make it.

Remeber everyone stay postive!

"I am so horny i need to suck your boyfriend d1ck!!":crackup:
 

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Docs said:
:), you sound like you are approaching 15-16 year olds. Yes?
Yeah basically they were 15-16 years because im assuming there easier aren't older girls harder?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ahh, not quite.
I find the super hot girls in HS are complete *****es. Go for the really cute ones that aren't super hot and it should be a bit easier.

How old were you thinking? :rolleyes:
 

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Staying postive is the answer and thats what i'll be doing everyday.I sleep as a loser and wake up as an alpha male.
 

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Ahh, not quite.
I find the super hot girls in HS are complete *****es. Go for the really cute ones that aren't super hot and it should be a bit easier.

How old were you thinking? :rolleyes:
I was thinking they are 17 around my age,but yeah obviously I can never go for my HS girls they all think im nerdy or a loser.And I got a reptuation as a nerd,dork or loser but you what? Im starting not to care because when I leave the school next year they are going to missing me and crying like little girls,hahahaha!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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YOU WERE POPULAR!!!Dude I always wanted to be popular thats my dream so tell me how did you become popular???
 

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somewhat popular. Everyone knew me, and I was a agreeable person, didn't piss people off, and I was a wimp-type so even though I was....singled out for a bit of fun (jokes), I wasn't affected by it, which I guess just helped.
 

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YO DOC or doctor whatever!! Stop posting!!If you are trying to hit 2000 posts in one day then you better make thread Shydude Vs Docs!! LOL HHAAHAH :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hmm just like me!!! I love posting here, its like i am addicted here!! Ohh man!! THis is MY FAMILY, right here!!
 

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shydude said:
Hmm just like me!!! I love posting here, its like i am addicted here!! Ohh man!! THis is MY FAMILY, right here!!
Yeah! its a good place to express feelings
 

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Well im going to signoff and go read a book i'll be back later on tonight and tommorow oufcourse,well good night for now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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