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Rejection! how to give her the finisher she deserves?!

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Hi pals,

I am wondering, everytime I get rejected in an arrogant way, I always think of how to give that stupid-nose high up-arrogant slut a finishing sentence that will stun her and will bring her down back to earth.


For example: < small convo started>


....

me: so, ok, let us continue our dialog on weekend, we should meet, give me your number and we can make up a meeting.

she: no, thanks

me: too shy? ;)

she: not interessted!

usually I then leave the bytch, like the crap that she is, but I always search for an arrogant and ****y finishing line to puzzle her and make her come down from her high horse:mad:

what do you think, would be good?
 

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Damnit!!! another lesbian
 

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Originally posted by DJDamage
I think you are spending too much time to coming up with a smart line on rejection rather then working on your game and finding something that works.

DjDamage

Well Said!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Originally posted by Mr.Speed
me: so, ok, let us continue our dialog on weekend, we should meet, give me your number and we can make up a meeting.

she: no, thanks

me: too shy? ;)

she: not interessted!

you: ok

*move legs, walk away, don't look back*
 

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She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I agree with Damage. You got rejected - it happens to us all, don't waste another second of your valuable time thinking about it.

Besides, with an attitude like she has it sounds like you had a lucky escape!
 

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Originally posted by Jariel
I agree with Damage. You got rejected - it happens to us all, don't waste another second of your valuable time thinking about it.

Besides, with an attitude like she has it sounds like you had a lucky escape!
lucky escape? she was so arrogant, I would have loved to slap her, course I didn't.

basically it seems, that just leaving is the best thing to do, since it also shows that you are confident enough to not beg her for attention.:kick:
 

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Dunno, mostly I've been rejected kindly. So, I've had no need for gettin' snippy with them. Sure it's dissapointing, but don't let them see it. I don't feel bad about getting rejected anymore.
 

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no, iam not dissapointed in getting rejected, it is just annoying when they are so arrogant and think that they are "little spoiled princesses" who can treat you like they wan't, it is their disgracing style..

nevertheless, as already mentioned, it is just a waste of time, speech,energy and brain substance to deal with them anymore than neccesary
 

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Originally posted by flexion_
Dumb question. Good responses.
Nah. There are no stupid questions, just stupid people.
:)
Peace.

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My homeboy attempted to game this girl in the mall.....

setup: he sees her with her BF. Her BF walks away. He asks hey was that your BF.

girl: yeah

my friend: he's a little ***** cus he's not me.

girl: go away. I dont need you.

my friend: Hey *****, PHUCK you anyway.

girl: looks all pissed and walks away.

my standing there like what the phuck just happened. He does this over and over again to every ho he runs into.
 

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Re: Re: Rejection! how to give her the finisher she deserves?!

Originally posted by Monkey
you: ok

*move legs, walk away, don't look back*
Hey this is the one I do naturally. Maybe I am getting something right. I also try and keep my upbeat nature going so as to show I am not overly concerned and also that helps me not to BE overly concerned.

If a girl is really cutting (unlikely) and you weren't being completely obnoxious and creepy or anything then it says more about her and her state of mind than you. There are loads of other people to talk to.
 

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There's no need to insult a girl for rejecting you. If you rejected a fat chick, would you be an arrogant slut for doing so?

You've got far better things to worry about - like how when you're going to date those 10 other girls who'd like to suck your d!ck.

Think BIG.
 

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usually I then leave the bytch

She is not a bytch, she is just not interested in you, that is your issue not hers.....she told you the truth deal with it, you trying to cut her down after that makes you look petty and insecure plus any girl that hears it will think less of you.

My homeboy attempted to game this girl in the mall.....

setup: he sees her with her BF. Her BF walks away. He asks hey was that your BF.

girl: yeah

my friend: he's a little ***** cus he's not me.

girl: go away. I dont need you.

my friend: Hey *****, PHUCK you anyway.

girl: looks all pissed and walks away.

my standing there like what the phuck just happened. He does this over and over again to every ho he runs into.


Your homeboy sounds like a D1CK!!!! what a tool, if any guy spoke to any of my friends like that I would be p1ssed, one day he will get his head smacked in.
 
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who cares what she said to you, you just leave and go find a nother chick to flirt w/. its not very complex. you dont need to spend time coming up with clever insults to someone who's not interested.
 

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She actually did you a favor by being honest and direct.

There are many girls out there who will feign interest, go out with you and suck you dry, emotionally and financially only to drop you when some other chump enters the picture.

Rejection is a part of life. Accept it and move on. No need to be bitter.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
There's no need to insult a girl for rejecting you. If you rejected a fat chick, would you be an arrogant slut for doing so?
Originally posted by Dr Box
She is not a bytch, she is just not interested in you, that is your issue not hers.....she told you the truth deal with it, you trying to cut her down after that makes you look petty and insecure plus any girl that hears it will think less of you.
These are 2 people who did NOT read the post, it wasnt just him being rejected it was how he was rejected, he was saying it like the girl insults him and thinks she is better. I would just walk away myself, but you 2 are way off on the point of the question.
 

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I had this girl HB9 seduced in like 15 seconds of talking to her today. Without even directly asking for a date she put her head down sheepishly smiling and in a very slow, sad, reluctant tone she said "I have a boyfriend anyway."

Nothing left to be said. I walked away like it was absolutely nothing feeling awesome that she totally wished that she didn't have a BF just now. She knows where to find me.

Don't get mad at the pvssy. The pvssy will play when its ready. Dont be trying to find ways to hate girls because they have a little attitude. Thats wasted energy.
 

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