"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Rejection feels good...

L

Lesson

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2004
Messages
42
Reaction score
0
OK guys, I'm a rAFC and tonight I was rejected(Although Admittingly I didn't really like the girl and was using her as "field practice") and I've never felt so happy in my life after rejection. Im serious... See, I used to get down on myself after rejection or being insulted in some way now its the ultimate motivational factor, for me atleast. I know from this experience(and it was pretty wild but I won't bore you guys with details) that my game is tighter then it was this morning... which really feels great. I love that I can spot and fix my mistakes and make my skills better for tomorrow. Its a good feeling and really takes the sting out of the fact that the girl doesn't like you(her loss, I never thought I would get to this point where I don't give a ****!).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

L

Lesson

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2004
Messages
42
Reaction score
0
No, actually... I had invited the girl to someplace where a group of people were headed, went today to an outing with her and 20 other people, and I was running a tight game(I had her laughing and kino'ed and she returned it), but I ****ed up on a number(I probably showed to much interest, she even called me "MEAN"(gotta work on those neg-hits) on 2 occasions) of things and she ended up saying "nay" and was all up on some other guy... whatever. So no, it wasn't even an approach just a girl no after the fact she accepted an invitation(Im the idiot who invited her on a outing where mad people were). So yea, learned a lot just by a rejection... and I know what I have to do next time to improve my chances. THats all.
 
L

Life-Trainee

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 29, 2004
Messages
795
Reaction score
0
Location
Boston, MA
Isn't that weird? It can be hard for me to push myself to approach sometimes but once I do and I get rejected I get some sence of confidense and accomplishment.
 
D

DJUofS

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 10, 2004
Messages
201
Reaction score
0
You know what's even better? That high you get when a girl doesn't reject you. You know what I am talking about... you feel like your on top of the world and can't stop smiling. It's like a drug...

If only half of the people on this board would get out there and approach. It's well worth it to get rejected 10 fold and to get 1 number...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

H

-HPNOTIQ-

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 3, 2003
Messages
821
Reaction score
11
Location
Seattle, WA
Accept rejection..but NEVER get used to it.

There's a fine line between accepting a rejection and getting used to the the fact that girls WILL reject you.

In honesty, I never look at anything I do as the WOMAN REJECTING ME....a woman REJECTING ME?? That's the most absurd thing I've ever heard.

In my mind - ITS HER LOSS!

Now take THAT attitude the next time you go out and most of all BELIEVE IN IT. Then, tell me how much MORE confidence you feel in your game.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top