Mr80LBBalls
Don Juan
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Powerful powerful powerful
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
rejection collection
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
afrojiggles
Don Juan
kul man
I just hope that elstud could see this now.
He has had little success becasue all his approaches were 1 out of 10's. Compared to someone who makes less approaches, but has more social skills and frequently scores 8's, 9's, and 10's, its no wonder the more socially apt guy has more success.
He has had little success becasue all his approaches were 1 out of 10's. Compared to someone who makes less approaches, but has more social skills and frequently scores 8's, 9's, and 10's, its no wonder the more socially apt guy has more success.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
I think some of the rejections are due to the quality of your approach situations. Just cold walking up to strangers with nothing particular in common is a disadvantage. I noticed how one of your female coworkers accepted at first at least.
