Rejected : (

[Phat]

Today i asked this girl out to a party

Status- Been macking her for a Week or so. And today i decided to give it a shot to ask her out. So heres how it went.




Me:Heyy whats up
Her:heyy
me: Yo whats your number?
Her: (gives me number)
Me:well yoo theres this party tomarrow u should come with me?
Her: NO thanks.
Me: Ok well its going to be fun.

Mann ill tell you what guys.. That was ****ed up how she said it haa.


Then i just leave.

 

[The Comeback Kid]

Sorry to hear that man. If I have to pick on something that you wrote, it's that you said "yo" twice. Unless you live near NYC, it may have come off as being very unclassy. Despite that, I don't think it affected her answer at all. I mean, she DID give you her number. If she really stressed the "no" when you asked her, then I think she coulda rejected you in a better manner.

Unfortunately for me, there's a chance I may be joining you tomorrow.

 

[Phat]

word.. Well that makes 2 of us.. I will tell u one thing tho.. Rejection is a ***** but i felt way determined like 2 hours later. The kinda feeling that would motivate me to get more girls and work on my game.. Well yeh let me know how it goes.

 

[SynapsyS]

So, you approached her out of the blue, and said "Yo what's your number?"?

I realise you were macking her for a week, but still, a little by-play before closing like that might have been a better idea.

Syn.

 

[Phat]

Nah it wasnt out of the blue.. She was at her Locker when it happend. She saw me coming . But w/e

 

[SynapsyS]

What I meant was, you basically asked for her number straight out. A little "How are you going?" "What class you just have?" "Did you see suchnsuch last night?" etc might have helped.

Better luck next time

 

[The Comeback Kid]

Originally posted by Phat
word.. Well that makes 2 of us.

Hey, I didn't get rejected yet.

Anyway, there is a chance this girl says yes (I made a thread on it). I just said that b/c I've been rejected before and I am probably asking out some chick tomorrow. We'll see what happens.

 

[Phat]

oh ight haha

 

[kidkoala]

rejection makes u stronger; seek rejection enjoy it and it won;t bug u anymore

 

[Nexxus]

rofl first time I asked a girl out was when I already made out with her

when I asked her out I was so shy, and i got rejected

funnilly enough though the feeling of getting rejected was one of the best feelings in my life... I swear getting rejected is fun

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by The Comeback Kid
Sorry to hear that man. If I have to pick on something that you wrote, it's that you said "yo" twice. Unless you live near NYC, it may have come off as being very unclassy.

Theres no problem with saying yo. I say yo all the time and its freaking hilarious. Of course i say it in joking since, but yo is the word of the week.

 

[jojoeyes]

getting specific dating advice online is a ***** cause theres a million things in the way you handle yourself etc that you would never think to write, but could easily be spotted if say i or someone else was with you. i think your speach was okay, a little to-the-point but still it was probably in your body language, eye contact, pitch of voice, twitching i mean theres a million things that could have been it.

but anyways just forget her and move on. your not looking for 100% success rate u just wanna get some ass every now and then.