Rejected, should I ask her again???

[Bile]

Asked out my little girlie...unfortunately I got rejected, it went something like this:

me: what are you doin next weekend??

her:babbels about working next saturday,then asks why?

me:well...I was thinkin about takin you out shoppin.... and then maybe go for some coffe or somethin...but I guess thats gonna be kind of hard for you?

Her: no...im sorry...like I said...Im workin next weekend...

What should I do about this kind of situation??
should I ask her out again... but just wait sometime??
did i wrong when I didn't ask for another time..`??

 

[Bile]

hmmm...I asked her: what about sunday, then???
nope...I gotta clean for christmas...(shes got some kind of psychotic thing for christmas cleaning cuz she has bad experiences with it [don't ask me how I know, I just do.])

 

[AFK Protector]

You're in denial.

She doesn't like you.

Accept it.

In fact, she might even be turned off/repulsed by you.

Why?

She fricking made up a story ahead of time RIGHT when you asked her what she was doing then had the audacity to feign innocence and ask "why?"

Next her.

"Christmas cleaning?" Wtf? My ass. That's a bull**** reason and you know it. Don't give me any of that "oh yeah she's got a thing for cleaning you know. She's not rejecting me. don't ask me how I know I just do teehee"

BULLLLSHHHIIITTT

If you still think she likes you, ask her to let you help clean. She'll be like, "no I like cleaning alone" or some **** like that. Or she might use you to tidy up her place.

MOVE THE **** ON MAN.

That is all.

 

[AC/DC]

Maybe this one's just playing hard to get...

Haha in either case, you DID get rejected, but don't feel bad. Figure out what you may have done wrong, anaylze it but don't dwell on it, and move on.

 

[Bile]

wtf....Im not makin this up...Btw she's been babblin about christmas cleanin all week... so dont tell me im makin this up... shes still ****in goin to a psychologist about it...

 

[Bile]

good... some constructive critisizm...at least thats a start..

 

[AFK Protector]

Originally posted by Bile
(shes got some kind of psychotic thing for christmas cleaning cuz she has bad experiences with it [don't ask me how I know, I just do.])

um...I didn't say you were making it up. You said it.

Anyways, sorry I was kinda harsh, but I think you need to distance yourself a bit. Especially since you asked her to go shopping for HER. Who'd turn that down? Well...her of course. because she's not interested right now. Nice try, gj having the balls to ask, but as AC/DC and I said, learn from this and move on.

 

[AFK Protector]

**** I just read your update again.

She's in high school.

She's going to a shrink.

To get rid of a cleaning obsession.

Ho-****ing-ly ****. Seems a bit weird...don't you think?

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

AFK, I think your advice has gotten better since you left.

 

[Bile]

thats part of what I really like about her... maybe I should just tell the whole story:

when she was like seven... her daddy used to throw all of her stuff away when it was time for christmas cleanin...and since she didnt have the guts to tell him off she just keept it inside of herself....until when she was like 15... then she had a breakdown... and started to see a psychologist...

seems really ****ed up huh?I guess it is... but thats what I like about her...well I guess i better just forgett about it and move on...

 

[AFK Protector]

Thanks TyTe. I've done a lot of planning and have goals set. I'm well on my way, but just need to finish them. I see things more realistically now, but that doesn't mean negatively.

Anyways, I hope you're doing well with life, women, and the works.

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

Bile,

If I were you, I wouldn't give up just yet. I would make sure that I didn't have a chance. Especially since you seem to like the girl.

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

Originally posted by AFK Protector
Anyways, I hope you're doing well with life, women, and the works.

Same to you bro.

 

[Bile]

so what should I do???
wait for about a week or two???

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

Originally posted by Bile
so what should I do???
wait for about a week or two???

Just ease up a bit. You don't want to come off desperate. I would probably wait a week and ask her about her plans. If she gives you a sh!t excuse, NEXT.