Rejected Myself!!!

[Purefilth]

Yesterday - In the supermarket.
HB8, Blonde, very cute. Caught the eye - contact, Gave her the smirk/ half-smile. She gave me back a Beautiful grin .

I hesitated, since this all happened as I was turning away already. I looked away, broke the eye-contact.

Could've opened, Could've closed, Could've kiss-closed, Couldve taken her home and be balls deep in her right now!

BUT I hesitated. I didn't approach, Didnt even say 'HI'.

I was AFC all over. Got the initial eye contact AND the smile, now I'm beating myself up about it.

Didn't even give myself a chance.

Doesn't even really matter. Just venting.

Warning to all, don't be me yesterday. Id rather have gotten a NO from her than be posting this - this is a failure. this is the only type of f/r that can be classed as a failure.


NEXT HOTTIE I SEE IS GIVING ME HER NUMBER. NO EXCUSES

 

[rgeere]

Just a little tip. Be comfortable in your own skin. And its better to have girls be persistent to talk with you anyways, so don't beat yourself up that you didn't get her number. What matters is that you reward what interest women give to you and love yourself and them enough to give interest back to them as the reward. Master that principle and you'll have women beating down your doorstep.

 

[jonhaul]

Not approaching is worse than rejection I saw a cute read head at the flea market. We both caught each others eye and she was playin with her hair lookin at me and I DIDN'T APPROACH! I was a coward at that moment and I do not know why? Oh well there will be plenty of other opportunities just remember that. Those are good indicators you mentioned and my case were too. Do not be hard on yourself... Plenty of more chances out there, opportunities, and options.

 

[marmel75]

Yeah, I've done that enough in the past to know what u are talking about...

I would have probably went with the "Do you always try to pick up guys in the supermarket?" line with a smile/laugh and see what happened...

 

[JohnChops]

filth no worries man I did the same exact thing a couple days ago on my way to psyc class. Doors blocked in front of us, turn around and this HB8was behind me and asked me what was going on. Said I duno and moved along -___-. Live and learn my friend, live and learn. And fvck giving her your number GET HER NUMBER BABBBBY!

 

[Purefilth]

I'm good now, just had one of those " fvvvvvck" moments. Just thought I'd share. If I hadn't hesitated- I wouldn't have posted... Warning to all - Think like Nike - just do it!

Game on, Tomorrow I shall shine, cheers for the words lads

 

[Plutoman]

Did that yesterday - girl was sitting in her car, texting, looked like she was about to leave. Cute, saw me eyeing her, and looked at me, smiled, twirled her hair. Totally missed a moment there, but on the spot I blanked and couldn't think of how to approach her - I'd have had to get her to roll down the window/etc just to speak to her. Plenty of ways to do it (being direct the easiest), but I crashed and burned.

Lots of 'damn, I missed that opportunity' moments to go around. Just gotta take as many as you can.

 

[Scars]

A good tip for you guys is to be a butter social fly everywhere, with everyone. Old ladies, men, cashiers, whoever is willing to talk.

I've found that it's extremely easy to go up to a girl and talk to her after you were just bullsh!ttin' with the cashier 2 minutes before.

We all have those stores, the ones we go to daily or several times a week. If you aren't on a first name basis with these employees then you're doing something wrong.

-Scars