"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LA_Chico

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheHumanist

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itishe said:
People now days seem to only view success as a money issue. If you can wake up in the morning and honestly say you're happy then I think you're successful.
Very true, for that very reason, I think it gives college more value then just an extension of high school to get more information to earn more money in life. I have to agree with John Galt that if one is going to college for the only reason of money, then it is overrated. A decent college is more than enough to earn an education that will win a decent job, provide one put enough into college. Plus, there are many other ways to become decently wealthy (though I think harder and more risky) then though a diploma and a job, like entrepreneurship.

But, as the core values of liberals arts, there more than just getting a diploma in college for a better job.
 

Fred Da Head

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You know what? A lot of people who get into their top choice are unhappy about it. It's never what you hoped it would be, and sometimes it's the opposite of what you hoped for. Sure, it's a bummer, but take it as a chance to experience something new that you wouldn't have otherwise.
 

CCKazi007

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No college is IMPORTANT if you want to make 300,000 or more a year because it helps your job opp and resume. Yes you can be "successful" without going to college but most ppl won't be and they need college to mature and actually get some taste of the real world.

The one thing I learned is it DOESN'T MATTER WHAT COLLEGE YOU GO BUT WHAT YOU DO with the things offered. I know a kid dumb in HS didn't try and got 2.5-2.8 and went to a state school for a year, studied hard got a 3.8 GPA and is now going to either Duke or Stanford. You can always do well at undergrad and then move to a good grad school, most jobs look at the grad school.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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