Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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LA_Chico

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheHumanist

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itishe said:
People now days seem to only view success as a money issue. If you can wake up in the morning and honestly say you're happy then I think you're successful.
Very true, for that very reason, I think it gives college more value then just an extension of high school to get more information to earn more money in life. I have to agree with John Galt that if one is going to college for the only reason of money, then it is overrated. A decent college is more than enough to earn an education that will win a decent job, provide one put enough into college. Plus, there are many other ways to become decently wealthy (though I think harder and more risky) then though a diploma and a job, like entrepreneurship.

But, as the core values of liberals arts, there more than just getting a diploma in college for a better job.
 

Fred Da Head

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You know what? A lot of people who get into their top choice are unhappy about it. It's never what you hoped it would be, and sometimes it's the opposite of what you hoped for. Sure, it's a bummer, but take it as a chance to experience something new that you wouldn't have otherwise.
 

CCKazi007

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No college is IMPORTANT if you want to make 300,000 or more a year because it helps your job opp and resume. Yes you can be "successful" without going to college but most ppl won't be and they need college to mature and actually get some taste of the real world.

The one thing I learned is it DOESN'T MATTER WHAT COLLEGE YOU GO BUT WHAT YOU DO with the things offered. I know a kid dumb in HS didn't try and got 2.5-2.8 and went to a state school for a year, studied hard got a 3.8 GPA and is now going to either Duke or Stanford. You can always do well at undergrad and then move to a good grad school, most jobs look at the grad school.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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