"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Rejected Before She Even Got to Know Me

RangerMIke

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Got rejected just because my sign is Taurus.

Apparently, being stubborn, liking my comfort, and taking my sweet time making decisions was enough to disqualify me.

Honestly, I can’t even be too mad about it. If someone is going to judge me based on my zodiac sign before actually getting to know me, maybe I saved myself some trouble anyway.

Anyone else ever been judged or rejected because of their sign?
Perfect attitude. You cannot control what other people do, only how you respond to it.

I do not know if I was ever rejected because of my astrological sign mostly because I don't care why I rejected. But women will reject you for any number of things I believe are silly.... the point is that it is apparently not silly to them. Just chalk it up to incompatibility. Reasons I know why I was rejected:

(1) I have a cat... and the woman was a dog person.
(2) I am a retired Army officer... some woman didn't like this.
(3) I do not own a home because I believe this is a terrible investment (I have the numbers to prove this)... some women don't get this.
(4) I drive a pickup truck... not sure why that is a problem but there are some women that don't like this.
(5) I have adult children... normally I would get this since it might distract from a woman, but I've been rejected by women for this reason even though she has adult children themselves.
(6) I don't attend a church... if she is religious I suppose this makes some sense.

The point is it really doesn't matter why you are rejected... just be glad you discover this as soon as possible to minimize your emotional investment.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CornbreadFed

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The point is it really doesn't matter why you are rejected... just be glad you discover this as soon as possible to minimize your emotional investment.
The value of dvck to women isn’t in very high demand so they can afford to think more future tense. Most men cannot understand this because they are constantly fighting for scraps their whole life. Some of these points may seem silly to men, but they are essentially lessons learned on the woman’s behalf. Outside women, you do the same stuff. You don’t mess around with restaurants outside your comfort zone. You don’t have hobbies outside your comfort zone. Why, because you have free will and a scarcity of time.
 

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I’m black so yes. Get over it and move on. Learn to screen out girls better.
Please shut up bro. Stop with this self defeating attitude.

You weren't rejected because you are black, but because you lacked sauve.

IIRC you kinda fixed this by now, so let the old you die COMPLETELY.
 
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