"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Rejected 3 times because of my height!

Mike32ct

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Boilermaker said:
I am 5'11 and sometimes I feel short. Not all the time, and the issue of height almost never comes up, except when a couple of cases where I got that look MatureDJ is mentioning when I approach taller and attractive women.

Nothing to be done about it, I guess, so keep plowing.

^This. I'm just about 5'11" and while women won't call me short to my face, I'm sure they think it lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am 5'9 and wear lifts to appear 5'11.

Still at a disadvantage relative to the monsters in the gym who are 6 foot 2 plus and get all the action even if they work at Mickey D's.
 

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I'm 5'6" and I'd be a total liar if I said it hasn't affected my love life. It has kicked me in the ass big time. I have heard them make comments like "I like him, but he's just too short". Great when one likes you and her friend tells her this, and she says "yeah guess you're right". Makes me wanna go crazy on her!

Guess i'm gonna have to get lifts, change to vertical stripes and stuff. And yes women can be extremely rude. I have actually walked away saying "nastybit$h" after hearing rude stuff.
 

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Shortness

I'm 5'5 ... I've had to work extremely hard to land chicks but when I look back at everything, I've dated and slept with some nice girls. Mostly girls who were the same height or shorter then me. I have been with a girl 5'7.5, use to sleep with her before we dated then didn't see her for like 4 yrs, when we saw each other again we started dating for about a year and then called it quits.

Honestly, its tough out there for us shorter guys. But when you do get the girl you want you feel a greater sense of accomplishment.

Most girls these days pay a ton of attention to how things "look". A taller girl and shorter guy doesn't really "look" right.

That being said, I'm still going to do my thing. I'll hit on taller girls, shorter girls and same height girls. Prob will get rejected by all 3 categories BUT eventually I'll have 2 of each.

Never give up. Focus on your strengths.

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My main plate is 5'11, and 6'3 in heels. I am 5'9, 5'11 in my lifts. We look odd together lol.

I still can't believe I pulled her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This will probably get pooh poohed by the crowd on here that don't rate the 'Alpha' thing, or think it is overplayed - but think of the characters Joe Pesci has played in a lot of the gangster movies. Yeah ok, I know it is only acting, but that lil muthafuker had one hell of a presence, and just oozed the alfa 'don't fuk with me' attitude that some women love despite him being knee high to a grass hopper.
 
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