Mike32ct
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^This. I'm just about 5'11" and while women won't call me short to my face, I'm sure they think it lol.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Rejected 3 times because of my height!
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^This. I'm just about 5'11" and while women won't call me short to my face, I'm sure they think it lol.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I'm 5'6" and I'd be a total liar if I said it hasn't affected my love life. It has kicked me in the ass big time. I have heard them make comments like "I like him, but he's just too short". Great when one likes you and her friend tells her this, and she says "yeah guess you're right". Makes me wanna go crazy on her!
Guess i'm gonna have to get lifts, change to vertical stripes and stuff. And yes women can be extremely rude. I have actually walked away saying "nastybit$h" after hearing rude stuff.
Guess i'm gonna have to get lifts, change to vertical stripes and stuff. And yes women can be extremely rude. I have actually walked away saying "nastybit$h" after hearing rude stuff.
Shortness
I'm 5'5 ... I've had to work extremely hard to land chicks but when I look back at everything, I've dated and slept with some nice girls. Mostly girls who were the same height or shorter then me. I have been with a girl 5'7.5, use to sleep with her before we dated then didn't see her for like 4 yrs, when we saw each other again we started dating for about a year and then called it quits.
Honestly, its tough out there for us shorter guys. But when you do get the girl you want you feel a greater sense of accomplishment.
Most girls these days pay a ton of attention to how things "look". A taller girl and shorter guy doesn't really "look" right.
That being said, I'm still going to do my thing. I'll hit on taller girls, shorter girls and same height girls. Prob will get rejected by all 3 categories BUT eventually I'll have 2 of each.
Never give up. Focus on your strengths.
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I'm 5'5 ... I've had to work extremely hard to land chicks but when I look back at everything, I've dated and slept with some nice girls. Mostly girls who were the same height or shorter then me. I have been with a girl 5'7.5, use to sleep with her before we dated then didn't see her for like 4 yrs, when we saw each other again we started dating for about a year and then called it quits.
Honestly, its tough out there for us shorter guys. But when you do get the girl you want you feel a greater sense of accomplishment.
Most girls these days pay a ton of attention to how things "look". A taller girl and shorter guy doesn't really "look" right.
That being said, I'm still going to do my thing. I'll hit on taller girls, shorter girls and same height girls. Prob will get rejected by all 3 categories BUT eventually I'll have 2 of each.
Never give up. Focus on your strengths.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This will probably get pooh poohed by the crowd on here that don't rate the 'Alpha' thing, or think it is overplayed - but think of the characters Joe Pesci has played in a lot of the gangster movies. Yeah ok, I know it is only acting, but that lil muthafuker had one hell of a presence, and just oozed the alfa 'don't fuk with me' attitude that some women love despite him being knee high to a grass hopper.