"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Reiteration of What Women Want

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What causes attraction in women. I mean if you're new and looking for a miracle cure this is the closest to it:cool:
In order
1.Power/Control i.e. Man in control
2. Social Status
3. Intelligence
4. Looks
5. Money

I cannot emphasize #1 enough. This differenciates the men from the boys. I dunno without #1 nothing else really matters. If women think you are a pushover, it's a wrap. Check people if they disrespect you. Yeah you may be coming out of your comfort zone to check someone but the benefits are :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the word "NO" is probably the most lethal weapon any man can use to bring a woman to her knees. the word no commands instant respect. they can use their pretty looks and sweet personality and if you still don't heed to their whims. they will love and respect you more.
 
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What you guys are missing is that this is a list of what "girls" want, not women although there are women who haven't outgrown this juvenile mindset. These are typically the women who are categorized as either high maintenance or flaky because of all of the number of unstable relationships they have been in. The easiest ways to recognize these women is by what they look for in men. Are they actual character traits or "quantity traits?"

Character traits
- Charisma
- Passion
- Confidence
- Self Control

Quantity traits
- Power
- Social status
- Money
- Things (car, home, job)

So many times both men and women define men by how many quantity traits they have. Guys will then focus on acquiring more of these quantitative traits often forgoing the quality traits.

The quantity seeking women tend to leave these guys to either date guys with more quantity or have a fling with guys with quality. Ever hear stories about women married to wealthy husbands who go away on an island vacation alone or with girlfriends and have a romance with an islander?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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