"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Reiteration of What Women Want

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What causes attraction in women. I mean if you're new and looking for a miracle cure this is the closest to it:cool:
In order
1.Power/Control i.e. Man in control
2. Social Status
3. Intelligence
4. Looks
5. Money

I cannot emphasize #1 enough. This differenciates the men from the boys. I dunno without #1 nothing else really matters. If women think you are a pushover, it's a wrap. Check people if they disrespect you. Yeah you may be coming out of your comfort zone to check someone but the benefits are :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the word "NO" is probably the most lethal weapon any man can use to bring a woman to her knees. the word no commands instant respect. they can use their pretty looks and sweet personality and if you still don't heed to their whims. they will love and respect you more.
 

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What you guys are missing is that this is a list of what "girls" want, not women although there are women who haven't outgrown this juvenile mindset. These are typically the women who are categorized as either high maintenance or flaky because of all of the number of unstable relationships they have been in. The easiest ways to recognize these women is by what they look for in men. Are they actual character traits or "quantity traits?"

Character traits
- Charisma
- Passion
- Confidence
- Self Control

Quantity traits
- Power
- Social status
- Money
- Things (car, home, job)

So many times both men and women define men by how many quantity traits they have. Guys will then focus on acquiring more of these quantitative traits often forgoing the quality traits.

The quantity seeking women tend to leave these guys to either date guys with more quantity or have a fling with guys with quality. Ever hear stories about women married to wealthy husbands who go away on an island vacation alone or with girlfriends and have a romance with an islander?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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