"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Reincarnation

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Im not a spiritual indivual not at all, yet this one seems the better option availabile.

Not interested in being a spirit of cosmic light with god neither spending eternity with dozens of women wheter they are virgins or not...to respawn seems a better option to me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think life is too small to think about this. Enjoy the moment that you are in and if reincarnation exists or not ,we don't really have to know about.
 

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As I understand it, even with reincarnation, the end result they look for is to become a cosmic being of light with God. The goal is to get rid of your karmic debt so you can get out of the reincarnation cycle. You want to stop being reborn continuously and escape this illusion of earthly materialistic existence (maya).
 

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LOL, yes, I was going to post about that till I read yours. With women, they were previously Egyptian Queens, Princesses, etc. Apparently cleaning ladies, office workers, secretaries and all "regular people" don't get reincarnated. That should give a believer in reincarnation pause as it refutes directly Zekko's correct outline of how it's supposed to work.

As for me, I think reincarnation is nonsense. Just another of humanity's way of dealing with death.
 

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Look around and try to find something unique in the world. There are countless grains of sand, leaves, trees, birds, fish, SJW's... even countless stars and galaxies. Why should consciousness be any different? We've probably experienced as many lives as there are elephants or rocks.

I also wonder whether humans (and other animals) are networked with one another. If humans are networked into one common humanity, and each brain is more like a receiver than a transmitter, would that mean if humans later travel sufficiently far away from Earth, will they go out of range? Would two humans on a rocket start reading each other's minds once they got away from the Biosphere? Can you think me now?

Finally, it seems pretty convenient that we find ourselves living on the cusp of the invention of artificial intelligence. Once AI is created, it will wonder how it got here, and it will have all these electronic records. It will construct a simulation to try to see when exactly it came into existence (its Big Bang). How do we know this isn't that simulation, playing over and over? As I travel I meet the same characters over and over, to the point where I can make amazing predictions about them. Could the Matrix only have so many unique humans that it repeats with subtle variations?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No evidence of reincarnation.

Its a metaphysical pipe dream.

Face the facts, you are your brain. You are not a soul. Once your brain shuts off you are eternally nothing.

Mid as well accept the inevitable now. Live this life to the fullest, it's the only one you get.
 

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Not sure, I still think it's to big a universe for there to be nothing else out there.
 
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