"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Reigniting my love and dedication for my passion. HELP?!?! Much needed!!!

Rint

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I have noticed that I have become a lot less passionate about dancing. I break dance. It's my passion. I could watch footage for hours and I use to love dancing for hours everyday. I use to practice 3 hours a day. Now I practice barely an hour. I just need some help reigniting my passion and getting back into it. I really want to get good at it and travel, but I can't do that unless that passion and dedication I use to have comes back. HELP PLEASE!!! I'm desperate!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Allurre

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Are you serious? I dance also. I don't even practice daily due to a packed schedule of running my business (LUXLIVIN).

I know what you're going through, it's just a phase. You're just not as actively into your hobby at the moment, there's nothing wrong. Try to find a side of you, develop a new skill, and through time, that passion will naturally reignite when an inspiration incident intertwines.
 

Rint

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Allurre said:
Are you serious? I dance also. I don't even practice daily due to a packed schedule of running my business (LUXLIVIN).

I know what you're going through, it's just a phase. You're just not as actively into your hobby at the moment, there's nothing wrong. Try to find a side of you, develop a new skill, and through time, that passion will naturally reignite when an inspiration incident intertwines.
That's good advice, but I need something that won't take too long because I have a lot of competitions to go to and try and win.
 
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