"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Reigniting my love and dedication for my passion. HELP?!?! Much needed!!!

Rint

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I have noticed that I have become a lot less passionate about dancing. I break dance. It's my passion. I could watch footage for hours and I use to love dancing for hours everyday. I use to practice 3 hours a day. Now I practice barely an hour. I just need some help reigniting my passion and getting back into it. I really want to get good at it and travel, but I can't do that unless that passion and dedication I use to have comes back. HELP PLEASE!!! I'm desperate!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Allurre

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Are you serious? I dance also. I don't even practice daily due to a packed schedule of running my business (LUXLIVIN).

I know what you're going through, it's just a phase. You're just not as actively into your hobby at the moment, there's nothing wrong. Try to find a side of you, develop a new skill, and through time, that passion will naturally reignite when an inspiration incident intertwines.
 

Rint

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Allurre said:
Are you serious? I dance also. I don't even practice daily due to a packed schedule of running my business (LUXLIVIN).

I know what you're going through, it's just a phase. You're just not as actively into your hobby at the moment, there's nothing wrong. Try to find a side of you, develop a new skill, and through time, that passion will naturally reignite when an inspiration incident intertwines.
That's good advice, but I need something that won't take too long because I have a lot of competitions to go to and try and win.
 
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