"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Regular women don't do it for me.

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By regular, I don't even mean necessarily 5, average looking women. I mean just women that have a regular, not that feminine look to them, or too innocent looking, lacking sex appeal. Plenty of women that are cute/pretty/hot but just look so little girlish and don't have the t n a that I don't feel any sexual attraction whatsoever.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34704963

This is the type of women that gets me off sexually. I love perfectly sculpted bodies. Even the more plain janish woman I like, still have that type of body, like Brandi from Storage Wars.

I've been on dates with 6/7/8ish type women that while they were good enough to hang out with/make out with etc. they just didn't turn me on and I didn't go home thinking about him or wanting to bang them. When I look at porn, it's of women like that, women with hourglass type figures and the "hot" look.

I'm wondering where to even find these type of women other than strip clubs or professionals? There's a good chance this profile is fake anyway.

But yeah you can't help what you're attracted to. Regular, non girly girls, or even hot girls that are more thin/smaller curves don't do it for me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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have you tried contacting her? I'm sure she'd be flattered to have a younger guy show an interest in her. And if not her, then I'm sure there are a lot of women like this on POF who would love to get with a guy in his 20s.
 
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So you like skanks... Is that what you're getting at? PoF is the right place to go, then. Ha ha. Also: bars and clubs. Girls like that all over those places - only younger and better looking.

I find that girls profile interesting. It seems like she is trying to come off as smart, and failing big time. What does mowing the lawn and having a snow blower have to do with anything? Reminds me of the moron skanks I used to date.
 
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Didn't he make another thread about this chick? Also she's separated? Damn that girl looks like trouble to me considering she may have an estranged husband that could be the jealous type since she could have left him....

Enter at own risk OP.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don't think you need to know anything about her to see that any kind of involvement is a trainwreck waiting to happen. All you need is some good ol' fashioned *****dar. Comes in handy.
 
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Why are you making multiple threads about this questionable chick? Just contact her! She's 14 years older than you. I'm sure she'd love a toy. p.s. I wouldn't make this link of her your 'social proof.' It's clear she's a one and done girl at best. Run.
 
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u have the complete opposite taste in women i do. i liked the pamela anderson look when i was in eighth grade. now, i dig girls that have that classy sexy appeal, rather than the stripper look.
 
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rhcp83 said:
By regular, I don't even mean necessarily 5, average looking women. I mean just women that have a regular, not that feminine look to them, or too innocent looking, lacking sex appeal. Plenty of women that are cute/pretty/hot but just look so little girlish and don't have the t n a that I don't feel any sexual attraction whatsoever.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34704963

This is the type of women that gets me off sexually. I love perfectly sculpted bodies. Even the more plain janish woman I like, still have that type of body, like Brandi from Storage Wars.

I've been on dates with 6/7/8ish type women that while they were good enough to hang out with/make out with etc. they just didn't turn me on and I didn't go home thinking about him or wanting to bang them. When I look at porn, it's of women like that, women with hourglass type figures and the "hot" look.

I'm wondering where to even find these type of women other than strip clubs or professionals? There's a good chance this profile is fake anyway.

But yeah you can't help what you're attracted to. Regular, non girly girls, or even hot girls that are more thin/smaller curves don't do it for me.
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you want to know where you can find them? go to your local gyms, supplement stores, or those healthy food grocery stores!!!! go after working hours to the gyms and ask for a tour of the gym and while you're doing that you look around and see. i see lots of older women at my gym usually in the morning or after 6p.m. some are pretty sexy. but, it's good the girls outnumber the guys at my gym lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rhcp83 said:
By regular, I don't even mean necessarily 5, average looking women. I mean just women that have a regular, not that feminine look to them, or too innocent looking, lacking sex appeal. Plenty of women that are cute/pretty/hot but just look so little girlish and don't have the t n a that I don't feel any sexual attraction whatsoever.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34704963

This is the type of women that gets me off sexually. I love perfectly sculpted bodies. Even the more plain janish woman I like, still have that type of body, like Brandi from Storage Wars.

I've been on dates with 6/7/8ish type women that while they were good enough to hang out with/make out with etc. they just didn't turn me on and I didn't go home thinking about him or wanting to bang them. When I look at porn, it's of women like that, women with hourglass type figures and the "hot" look.

I'm wondering where to even find these type of women other than strip clubs or professionals? There's a good chance this profile is fake anyway.

But yeah you can't help what you're attracted to. Regular, non girly girls, or even hot girls that are more thin/smaller curves don't do it for me.
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The chick in the picture probably looks better in person. The pictures she used could be much better. Have you messaged her? There are FEW fake profiles on POF. Trust me most of these chicks are real.

Send her a message titled: Hairspray.

In the body simply tell her: "Please for the love of sweet baby Jesus and getting better quality replies clean the hairspray off that mirror!"

Most chicks as long as you look good in your own pictures will reply.

Key words: Seperated. Looking for fun in her home. She wants some d1ck. Ignore it though. Three back and forth normal replies. Then simply: "Give me your number. I'm not on here much."

She'll either give it or wait a few days. If not move on.
 
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It's AFC, IMO, not to go for what we desire. I notice that you ask a lot if x woman is hot, or y woman is worth dating. There is a social standard of attractiveness, but I think a person should develop his own tastes. no known beauty standard is like a law of the universe.
 
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