"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Regular women don't do it for me.

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By regular, I don't even mean necessarily 5, average looking women. I mean just women that have a regular, not that feminine look to them, or too innocent looking, lacking sex appeal. Plenty of women that are cute/pretty/hot but just look so little girlish and don't have the t n a that I don't feel any sexual attraction whatsoever.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34704963

This is the type of women that gets me off sexually. I love perfectly sculpted bodies. Even the more plain janish woman I like, still have that type of body, like Brandi from Storage Wars.

I've been on dates with 6/7/8ish type women that while they were good enough to hang out with/make out with etc. they just didn't turn me on and I didn't go home thinking about him or wanting to bang them. When I look at porn, it's of women like that, women with hourglass type figures and the "hot" look.

I'm wondering where to even find these type of women other than strip clubs or professionals? There's a good chance this profile is fake anyway.

But yeah you can't help what you're attracted to. Regular, non girly girls, or even hot girls that are more thin/smaller curves don't do it for me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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have you tried contacting her? I'm sure she'd be flattered to have a younger guy show an interest in her. And if not her, then I'm sure there are a lot of women like this on POF who would love to get with a guy in his 20s.
 
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So you like skanks... Is that what you're getting at? PoF is the right place to go, then. Ha ha. Also: bars and clubs. Girls like that all over those places - only younger and better looking.

I find that girls profile interesting. It seems like she is trying to come off as smart, and failing big time. What does mowing the lawn and having a snow blower have to do with anything? Reminds me of the moron skanks I used to date.
 
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Didn't he make another thread about this chick? Also she's separated? Damn that girl looks like trouble to me considering she may have an estranged husband that could be the jealous type since she could have left him....

Enter at own risk OP.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't think you need to know anything about her to see that any kind of involvement is a trainwreck waiting to happen. All you need is some good ol' fashioned *****dar. Comes in handy.
 
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Why are you making multiple threads about this questionable chick? Just contact her! She's 14 years older than you. I'm sure she'd love a toy. p.s. I wouldn't make this link of her your 'social proof.' It's clear she's a one and done girl at best. Run.
 
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u have the complete opposite taste in women i do. i liked the pamela anderson look when i was in eighth grade. now, i dig girls that have that classy sexy appeal, rather than the stripper look.
 
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rhcp83 said:
By regular, I don't even mean necessarily 5, average looking women. I mean just women that have a regular, not that feminine look to them, or too innocent looking, lacking sex appeal. Plenty of women that are cute/pretty/hot but just look so little girlish and don't have the t n a that I don't feel any sexual attraction whatsoever.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34704963

This is the type of women that gets me off sexually. I love perfectly sculpted bodies. Even the more plain janish woman I like, still have that type of body, like Brandi from Storage Wars.

I've been on dates with 6/7/8ish type women that while they were good enough to hang out with/make out with etc. they just didn't turn me on and I didn't go home thinking about him or wanting to bang them. When I look at porn, it's of women like that, women with hourglass type figures and the "hot" look.

I'm wondering where to even find these type of women other than strip clubs or professionals? There's a good chance this profile is fake anyway.

But yeah you can't help what you're attracted to. Regular, non girly girls, or even hot girls that are more thin/smaller curves don't do it for me.
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you want to know where you can find them? go to your local gyms, supplement stores, or those healthy food grocery stores!!!! go after working hours to the gyms and ask for a tour of the gym and while you're doing that you look around and see. i see lots of older women at my gym usually in the morning or after 6p.m. some are pretty sexy. but, it's good the girls outnumber the guys at my gym lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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rhcp83 said:
By regular, I don't even mean necessarily 5, average looking women. I mean just women that have a regular, not that feminine look to them, or too innocent looking, lacking sex appeal. Plenty of women that are cute/pretty/hot but just look so little girlish and don't have the t n a that I don't feel any sexual attraction whatsoever.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34704963

This is the type of women that gets me off sexually. I love perfectly sculpted bodies. Even the more plain janish woman I like, still have that type of body, like Brandi from Storage Wars.

I've been on dates with 6/7/8ish type women that while they were good enough to hang out with/make out with etc. they just didn't turn me on and I didn't go home thinking about him or wanting to bang them. When I look at porn, it's of women like that, women with hourglass type figures and the "hot" look.

I'm wondering where to even find these type of women other than strip clubs or professionals? There's a good chance this profile is fake anyway.

But yeah you can't help what you're attracted to. Regular, non girly girls, or even hot girls that are more thin/smaller curves don't do it for me.
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The chick in the picture probably looks better in person. The pictures she used could be much better. Have you messaged her? There are FEW fake profiles on POF. Trust me most of these chicks are real.

Send her a message titled: Hairspray.

In the body simply tell her: "Please for the love of sweet baby Jesus and getting better quality replies clean the hairspray off that mirror!"

Most chicks as long as you look good in your own pictures will reply.

Key words: Seperated. Looking for fun in her home. She wants some d1ck. Ignore it though. Three back and forth normal replies. Then simply: "Give me your number. I'm not on here much."

She'll either give it or wait a few days. If not move on.
 
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It's AFC, IMO, not to go for what we desire. I notice that you ask a lot if x woman is hot, or y woman is worth dating. There is a social standard of attractiveness, but I think a person should develop his own tastes. no known beauty standard is like a law of the universe.
 
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