Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Regretting being sexual

mikephat

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Second date with divorced 46-old woman went pretty well. When I made a move, she jumped on me with kissing, touching and being very sexual. We ended at my place making out and she literally raped me. In the middle of the sex she interrupted all and started to have a second thoughts like she's behaving like a slut, she didn't have sex for 5 years and was afraid that I think she is an easy woman. She was ashamed with her behaviour, asking to go home and think about all.

I think she is all into me, I see how she looks at me, eyes wide open with passion and deep breathing, but I think that she was never behaved like that. She lets her brakes off, and regrets about it.

Any thoughts what to expect?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mrgoodstuff

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Second date with divorced 46-old woman went pretty well. When I made a move, she jumped on me with kissing, touching and being very sexual. We ended at my place making out and she literally raped me. In the middle of the sex she interrupted all and started to have a second thoughts like she's behaving like a slut, she didn't have sex for 5 years and was afraid that I think she is an easy woman. She was ashamed with her behaviour, asking to go home and think about all.

I think she is all into me, I see how she looks at me, eyes wide open with passion and deep breathing, but I think that she was never behaved like that. She lets her brakes off, and regrets about it.

Any thoughts what to expect?
Calm her down, tell her it's okay and you understand. Make sure it happens next time, perhaps take the lead so she doesn't have to worry about being a wild woman.
 
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