"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Regretting being sexual

mikephat

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Second date with divorced 46-old woman went pretty well. When I made a move, she jumped on me with kissing, touching and being very sexual. We ended at my place making out and she literally raped me. In the middle of the sex she interrupted all and started to have a second thoughts like she's behaving like a slut, she didn't have sex for 5 years and was afraid that I think she is an easy woman. She was ashamed with her behaviour, asking to go home and think about all.

I think she is all into me, I see how she looks at me, eyes wide open with passion and deep breathing, but I think that she was never behaved like that. She lets her brakes off, and regrets about it.

Any thoughts what to expect?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrgoodstuff

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Second date with divorced 46-old woman went pretty well. When I made a move, she jumped on me with kissing, touching and being very sexual. We ended at my place making out and she literally raped me. In the middle of the sex she interrupted all and started to have a second thoughts like she's behaving like a slut, she didn't have sex for 5 years and was afraid that I think she is an easy woman. She was ashamed with her behaviour, asking to go home and think about all.

I think she is all into me, I see how she looks at me, eyes wide open with passion and deep breathing, but I think that she was never behaved like that. She lets her brakes off, and regrets about it.

Any thoughts what to expect?
Calm her down, tell her it's okay and you understand. Make sure it happens next time, perhaps take the lead so she doesn't have to worry about being a wild woman.
 
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