Regressing from constant rejection/lowered confidence

[GeeMale]

I feel like I'm regressing maybe cause of the realization that I'm not making the progress that I perceived it to be. I started to view this site almost a year ago and everything started great with approaching. However I realized I can't get dates and get rejected a lot. Women tell me I'm good looking yet avg looking chicks reject me. It's getting so annoying that I just wanna give up. But I've been obsessed with learning about chicks for 1 year that I basically forgot how to lose myself in soemthing that matters. I work and workout but don't reallyhang out with friends.

Has anyone hit a weird road after visiting visiting this site like this?

What could I do change all this

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I feel like I'm regressing maybe cause of the realization that I'm not making the progress that I perceived it to be. I started to view this site almost a year ago and everything started great with approaching. However I realized I can't get dates and get rejected a lot. Women tell me I'm good looking yet avg looking chicks reject me. It's getting so annoying that I just wanna give up. But I've been obsessed with learning about chicks for 1 year that I basically forgot how to lose myself in soemthing that matters. I work and workout but don't reallyhang out with friends.

Has anyone hit a weird road after visiting visiting this site like this?

What could I do change all this

Rejection and being minimized will eat into your self image and ego . Someone must surely have a process for reversing this degredation and filling you up . At a thought, I'd remove or eliminate conversation and thought of your points of rejection. Spend time and have sex with women that make it easy for you . It will feed your self image and ego. Youll be more attractive to all .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Rejection and being minimized will eat into your self image and ego . Someone must surely have a process for reversing this degredation and filling you up . At a thought, I'd remove or eliminate conversation and thought of your points of rejection. Spend time and have sex with women that make it easy for you . It will feed your self image and ego. Youll be more attractive to all .

Don't keep getting rejected by the same girl(s) or group . There is a huge cost to it. Once you have a steady source of sex and companionship you won't waste a single minute worry about babes who didn't like you .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

And people can see your "rejection" . Where red, purple hot or stressed . We're not fully present and confidence in the moment . We don't look annointed. We don't look filled.

 

[GeeMale]

And people can see your "rejection" . Where red, purple hot or stressed . We're not fully present and confidence in the moment . We don't look annointed. We don't look filled.

I literally didn't understand that lol
I don't ask the same chicks after being rejected tho and I never will

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I literally didn't understand that lol
I don't ask the same chicks after being rejected tho and I never will

I was saying that someone can see your not having sex . If you are a masculine and sexual male you have to do what they do.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Annointed in church is when you have your oil. When in abundance your skin is more oily and less dry . A ultra dry and stressed look is one whose denied in some way.

 

[GeeMale]

I was saying that someone can see your not having sex . If you are a masculine and sexual male you have to do what they do.

Oh I don't care about that. As long as I don't come across as a needy AFC and come off mature like I have experience with confidence hat's all that matters

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Oh I don't care about that. As long as I don't come across as a needy AFC and come off mature like I have experience with confidence hat's all that matters

Dude when we're not getting pvssy and not basking in female desire they can see it in our vibe. Make your choice. Bring a sexual male doesn't mean we have to sleep around. But we do need at least one who will always oblige us sex due to desire.

 

[GeeMale]

Dude when we're not getting pvssy and not basking in female desire they can see it in our vibe. Make your choice. Bring a sexual male doesn't mean we have to sleep around. But we do need at least one who will always oblige us sex due to desire.

I've read from other sources that containing one's sexual energy makes one be more creative/productive/charismatic and healthy due to having semen which is nutrients for the body

 

[GeeMale]

Dude when we're not getting pvssy and not basking in female desire they can see it in our vibe. Make your choice. Bring a sexual male doesn't mean we have to sleep around. But we do need at least one who will always oblige us sex due to desire.

Containing not supressing there is a difference as supressing makes one weak sort of and non magnetic

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I've read from other sources that containing one's sexual energy makes one be more creative/productive/charismatic and healthy due to having semen which is nutrients for the body

No . Abstaining is bertter than a whole bunch of jacking off. But it won't feed parts of your ego that will expand your mind .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I still have long dry spells and I've been here 8 years. This is just how it is, don't worry about it. If your self esteem is getting hurt, please avoid clubs and online dating as they require a lot of rejection. Focus on building a huge social circle and Mee women that way. I will caution you though, if you have trouble with meaningless dating rejection then how can you possibly handle being rejected by someone who actually knows you intimately via a relationship?

Being "rejected" means nothing when you have guaranteed pvssy. You'll laugh at it, go home and fvck. We should always have someone we can count on for sex.

 

[GeeMale]

I still have long dry spells and I've been here 8 years. This is just how it is, don't worry about it. If your self esteem is getting hurt, please avoid clubs and online dating as they require a lot of rejection. Focus on building a huge social circle and Mee women that way. I will caution you though, if you have trouble with meaningless dating rejection then how can you possibly handle being rejected by someone who actually knows you intimately via a relationship?

I don't have a problem BEING rejected. But logically it makes me hopeless for finding beautiful women if I don't keep my head up for the future. That's the thing that hangs over over my head like an insecurity. I have no problem cold approaching and asking out beatiful women believe me.

If anything my ego is coming in. I hate that women say I'm good looking yet I get rejected and it pisses me off. If I don't then I rarely meet for dates/sex

 

[ohrein]

I feel like I'm regressing maybe cause of the realization that I'm not making the progress that I perceived it to be. I started to view this site almost a year ago and everything started great with approaching. However I realized I can't get dates and get rejected a lot. Women tell me I'm good looking yet avg looking chicks reject me. It's getting so annoying that I just wanna give up. But I've been obsessed with learning about chicks for 1 year that I basically forgot how to lose myself in soemthing that matters. I work and workout but don't reallyhang out with friends.

Has anyone hit a weird road after visiting visiting this site like this?

What could I do change all this

Yes, we've all hit road blocks. It's inevitable with anything in life. You're only at the beginning of your journey so don't get discouraged.

From this post it sounds like you're still outcome dependent. This means, you're invested in your results with women. The problem with this is that there is "vibe" or an "aura" as other posters have said, that exudes desperation. It's subconscious and it's body language and it's very difficult to eliminate with will alone. The only way to truly eliminate it is to actually not care about the outcome of an interaction with a woman.
The perfect example of this phenomenon is how women seem to flock to you when you have a girlfriend and you're not looking for a woman.

Working on your life is as important as building your skills with women. I would be investing as much, if not more time, into your friends, hobbies, career and health. You want to live your life primarily, and add women in as a secondary. If you have people you love and passions to spend time on, you won't care as much about getting rejected because you can just go and do those things instead.

It's a long road but you need to start reframing your interactions with women now. You shouldn't care about the outcome of any interaction with any woman. You should be aiming to have fun and nothing more. See a woman you find cute? She makes eye contact and smiles? Go talk to her, not with the intent of dating her, not with the intent of having sex with her, not with the intent of even getting her number, you go up to her to see if she is fun and to have fun with her.

 

[Mike32ct]

I still have long dry spells and I've been here 8 years. This is just how it is, don't worry about it.

^^This.

I recently broke a 5-year dry spell. Nothing is impossible. Rejection and dry spells don’t mean jack as long as you keep a good attitude and sense of humor about it.

More rejections and friendzone please. Bring it on

 

[GeeMale]

Yes, we've all hit road blocks. It's inevitable with anything in life. You're only at the beginning of your journey so don't get discouraged.

From this post it sounds like you're still outcome dependent. This means, you're invested in your results with women. The problem with this is that there is "vibe" or an "aura" as other posters have said, that exudes desperation. It's subconscious and it's body language and it's very difficult to eliminate with will alone. The only way to truly eliminate it is to actually not care about the outcome of an interaction with a woman.
The perfect example of this phenomenon is how women seem to flock to you when you have a girlfriend and you're not looking for a woman.

Working on your life is as important as building your skills with women. I would be investing as much, if not more time, into your friends, hobbies, career and health. You want to live your life primarily, and add women in as a secondary. If you have people you love and passions to spend time on, you won't care as much about getting rejected because you can just go and do those things instead.

It's a long road but you need to start reframing your interactions with women now. You shouldn't care about the outcome of any interaction with any woman. You should be aiming to have fun and nothing more. See a woman you find cute? She makes eye contact and smiles? Go talk to her, not with the intent of dating her, not with the intent of having sex with her, not with the intent of even getting her number, you go up to her to see if she is fun and to have fun with her.

Hmm
I feel like the pressure of this site to perform with results is what contributes to my desperation aura
You're right I need to not care and just see her if she is fun. I def got to reconnect with friends all over and make new ones. It seems like I only work and go to the gym. Like that's not much fun lol . But **** this results mind frame it's dragging me down and I'm ready to shift

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Hmm
I feel like the pressure of this site to perform with results is what contributes to my desperation aura
You're right I need to not care and just see her if she is fun. I def got to reconnect with friends all over and make new ones. It seems like I only work and go to the gym. Like that's not much fun lol . But **** this results mind frame it's dragging me down and I'm ready to shift

It's 400% easier if you have even one .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

^^This.

I recently broke a 5-year dry spell. Nothing is impossible. Rejection and dry spells don’t mean jack as long as you keep a good attitude and sense of humor about it.

More rejections and friendzone please. Bring it on

And let me guess . Now that your phvcking half of em want some.

 

[zekko]

When in abundance your skin is more oily and less dry

If you have acne, does that count?