- Jun 23, 2014
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ALL of this is great, and I know that I would have a shyt more chicks I'm "spinning" if I had:Lately I have heard some decent material from @da dynamically about what matters most if you want to get hot girls and I think to an extent he is on to something. I have also argued with @RangerMIke about this very thing as well when we talked about college versus the real world for men. This is an argument I have had with @bigneil which has him thinking that I want older guys to do poorly. Why would I if I am going to be an older guy one day?
Regardless of your looks, status, game, and money; it's all about the opportunities you can get and create with attractive women if you want to sleep with a lot of them.
I think the reason college gets pedestalized as much as it does is because college guys are in a unique environment where the vast majority of the women they run into are single and bangable. Being in a top tier fraternity, in my opinion, is one of the biggest boosts out there for a guy who wants to sleep with a lot of hot girls because it simply provides him a lot of opportunities. For the vast majority of guys in college though, the opportunity isn't normally as good.
Lets break the situation down even more.
You have one guy who is 19, drinks a lot, parties a lot, isn't that charming, and looks okay. That guy happens to be at a party school where most girls have a high sex drive and hookup culture is big. At some point, even that guy is going to score.
You have another guy who is older, out of college, works 50+ hours a week, and doesn't interact with women nearly as much as the former. He is handsome, makes a nice salary, and is a smooth talker but there is an issue; the opportunities are just not there.
Guy 2 is much better on paper than guy 1.
Guy 2 is better looking, probably even has better game, a better salary, and generally better than guy 1 but who is really getting laid more?
This is why whenever someone says women love older men, while I can see that as being true, it's different in the way it plays out.
I am sure most hot girls in the 18-25 age range would be open to sleeping with an older guy that his life together, doesn't mean it happens that often.
Because who are they running more into and who is a part of their world?
In all likelihood, it's a guy around their age.
Most attractive women have social circles they are a part of and as a result, they go for guys who are a part of their social world.
So while another guy might objectively be better on paper, in her world he does not have status.
That is why bartenders and club promoters get way more hot girls than software engineers and most white collar guys, because the opportunity is there.
Club promoters work in an environment that promotes hooking up, sleeping around, and having random sex while software engineers? Not as much.
It doesn't matter that on paper, club promoter is a lot less appealing to society than some guy working at Google but it's all about the opportunities.
Given enough opportunities being thrown at your face, the vast majority of guys with decent looking and an ounce of game could get an above average looking girl every now and then.
Which is why we need to talk more about this too.
Cold approach and online dating are ways to create opportunities but I do think that guys can do way more too. I think a guy that is good on paper who CAN create a lot of opportunities for himself will truly swim in p-ssy.
- More time to meet more chicks
- More time to entertain/manage more chicks on rotation
The situation here is that I have something called "priorities" in life. That is, I have a career, a real career, as well as real financial goals that I'm looking to accomplish. I also want to stay healthy, so that requires some time spent in the gym/working out.
Accomplished men don't have all of this time on their hands to spin 10 women at once, sit around fvcking chicks all day, and sit around meeting women all day.
It's all about BALANCE. Because my time is limited, I'm actually at the place of limiting the type of women I rotate/spin and entertain, because I don't have the time to entertain all of them anyway and I'm damn sure not sacrificing my career progression for something as meaningless as a piece of ran through pvssy.