"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Regarding "Purpose"

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zekko said:
It definitely makes a difference what your purpose is. If your purpose is to build the biggest model railroad or civil war diorama that you can fit in your garage, it's probably not going to help you get women. If it's something that can give you status or get you out socializing with people, it will likely help you meet more women, and make you more interesting to them. Like playing music, racing motorcycles, playing baseball, or something like that.
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Absolutely.

But you can’t (or perhaps shouldn’t) force yourself into something you aren’t interested in just to get women.

If your job and/or hobbies just aren’t sexy to women, I think you just have to own it. It is what it is. Your passion is your passion. You gotta do you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To me the purpose is what defines you individually, your very own identity, the reason for your existence beyond women because when a woman leaves you you're still left with that purpose in life to pursue. OR...in many cases you give up your purpose to please the woman and then when she still leaves you, you're left with nothing - never do this.

I highly recommend watching "The Founder" the true story of McDonald's. Right or wrong that man found his purpose.
 
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