Well over summer this guy and his gf (my ex gf). Tricked me into picking her up, and she punched me in the face twice in a parking lot and he jumped me from behind. Its been 6 months since then. And i wanted to get a peice of him everyday since. And apparently he wants a piece of me too. My pride got stomped on, and i want a piece of this ****er. Im relatively sure i can take him. But im not sure if my pride is worth it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Regain of pride....
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
What a bunch of assh0les; you should have broken up with that b'tch sooner than you did. I can only imagine the warning signs that lead up to that point.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Don't cross-post. Your other thread has been deleted.
Originally posted by rgeere
What a bunch of assh0les; you should have broken up with that b'tch sooner than you did. I can only imagine the warning signs that lead up to that point.
yeah they are pretty ****ed up imo.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MindOverMatter
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what did you do to make her attack you, and bring another guy to jump you? as far as I know, girls will only resort to this if they feel threatened by you.
Actually she provoked it completely. a few days before i took her out to red lobster and she told me she loved me all this crap wanted to be iwth me. Then she said she wanted to fight my friend stacey, and kept provoking it. So i told stacey about it. Then when i went to pick her up that night she does the trick and punches me in the face twice. and i say "why are you doing this?" and she goes your a jackass trevor, you want stacey to fight me, and i said no i dont you want to fight stacey(she told me to bring her to the mall so she could fight stacey even.) Then her bf jumped me from behind.(hes afc faggot, she can warp his mind to do anything)Originally posted by MindOverMatter
what did you do to make her attack you, and bring another guy to jump you? as far as I know, girls will only resort to this if they feel threatened by you.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
That's pretty fvcked up dude. If you're going to fight this dude, you might want to be ready. It doesn't sound like he fights fair. If I were you, I would get a roll of pennies and tape them up real good. If you hit somebody with this in your fist, it will do some serious damage. Just keep it in your pocket in case things don't go your way.
FYI, a penny roll is considered a deadly weapon.
FYI, a penny roll is considered a deadly weapon.
lol pennie rolls a deadly waepon. Yeah i wouldnt put it past him to not fight fair. They are both sick individuals, like a battle between good and evil if we fight.Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
That's pretty fvcked up dude. If you're going to fight this dude, you might want to be ready. It doesn't sound like he fights fair. If I were you, I would get a roll of pennies and tape them up real good. If you hit somebody with this in your fist, it will do some serious damage. Just keep it in your pocket in case things don't go your way.
FYI, a penny roll is considered a deadly weapon.
TurboOverCubicInches
Don Juan
In the good ol' USA, fighting somebody, or implying that you are going to hurt somebody, is ASSAULT. Does not look pretty on your record. Especially when you're trying to get a job. Here's the best case scenario:
you beat this guys rear, and yer happy for about 3 or 4 hour
worst:
the girl calls the cops, someone else calls the cops, or the kid calls the cops. You hit him so hard that you break his jaw and he requires hospitlization, a police report is made, and you need to come u with $3,000 for a lawyer and court fees.
all this for a few hours worth of pride.
grow up is my suggestion.
you beat this guys rear, and yer happy for about 3 or 4 hour
worst:
the girl calls the cops, someone else calls the cops, or the kid calls the cops. You hit him so hard that you break his jaw and he requires hospitlization, a police report is made, and you need to come u with $3,000 for a lawyer and court fees.
all this for a few hours worth of pride.
grow up is my suggestion.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.