"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Regain My Mojo And Get Some Ho-Ho's

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I used to have no problem with the ladies due to my dashing good looks but the droping out of school and doing nothing for 2 years and haveing to face up to demons and not so normal family life took its toll on me. I stoped eating rite and lost weight (Now I'm too skinny) Too many sleepless nights and to much worrying have destroyed my confidence and looks. I had to face up to the fact I don't really like myself and when I go out being the ****y bastard I know inside I dont belive my own hype. When I droped out of school I was 16 now Im 18 and even when I hooked up with the girls then I never fully had faith in myself. Where im from (Ireland) you're able to go to pubs and clubs and go drinking at 18 (Suprise Suprise I hear you say) but since I turned 18 I havent had the guts to show my face as Im afraid the ladies wont be wooed by my advances. Im also doubting wheter I can pull off the ****y/funny routine as I dont belive it myself when I do It and feel I just look like a **** who's trying to hard. How do I banish these insercuites and become a man? Help me brothers as I am need of help. Bless you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I will study that. Is it possible for ANY man to become a mack daddy? I aint the worst looking but I feel I smell of desperation and lack of confidence.
 

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What are you doing with your education.. There are colleges, tech schools, trade schools.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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